@helena_earls: intimacy vs. mutual fawning #healingtiktok #peoplepleasingrecovery #childhoodtrauma

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scrodingerstimelord
ScrodingersTimelord :
The "I feel so safe and seen around you, because you're so considerate" to ghosting for no apparent reason and never speaking again pipeline 😅
2025-12-06 17:24:45
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elenat.artwork
elenat.artwork :
I’ve always fawned so hard..unaware that’s what it was. And I’ve felt resentful of people who didn’t fawn back to me. Because I sensed their freedom and I sensed it wasn’t fair. I need to fawn, so why do they not have to? I’m still unlearning this shit
2025-12-07 23:42:23
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liminallinda
linda 🧿 :
you just perfectly articulated a biggg theme in my life this year that I couldn't quite pin down
2025-12-08 07:26:44
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catherinehawkins21
TheWomanKate :
And as soon as you set a boundary the relationship ends.
2025-12-08 03:40:11
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eggs_hells
Ed :
I have been practicing having small conflicts and it has been hard and sometimes it has been a problem so this feels relatable!!
2025-12-08 22:21:34
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sunnydelite6
sunnydelite :
Wow I’ve never heard anyone talk about this 😳
2025-12-06 06:50:04
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mimidenee
mimi :
ariana grande and cynthia erivo
2025-12-08 05:50:20
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fellowwelker
Fellow Welker :
Dishonest harmony
2025-12-08 03:24:30
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leyasolo
LeyaSolo :
They either become more authentic together or it ends up
2025-12-08 15:43:02
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caturinejuulpod
Zircon :
Ah this explains a lot about my weird whirlwind lovebombing-based 6-month online parasocial friendship from like 2023
2025-12-08 15:37:48
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darkcrystalacademy
darkcrystalacademy :
disagreement is healthy
2025-12-08 17:17:40
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wild.kreacije
ᨰׁׅꪱׁׅᥣׁׅ֪ժׁׅ݊ :
Repressing all kinds of feelings, not only anger. Doesn't even maje it fun. It"s very empty. Very lonely.
2025-12-06 14:28:33
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jerseyjess73
Empowered Beliefs & Beyond :
Yes when I healed my co dependency, people pleasing and abandonment wounds I lost a lot of friends but some rose with me! It’s wild ❤️
2025-12-10 07:06:38
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hidinginmytreehouse
lighthouse keeper :
THANK YOU. I've been struggling to make sense of why my "perfect," peaceful relationship with my former roommate was more suffocating to me than the sometimes difficult but very honest relationship I have with my partner. This is exactly what it was.
2025-12-08 08:34:52
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vrose84
Victoria :
This just blew my mind
2025-12-08 06:36:26
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mae698978
Mira (tȟašíyagnuŋpa) :
Ooooo enter in the women’s Bible study groups
2025-12-07 18:02:40
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erikazazzu.therapy
Erika Zazzu :
Absolutely, I’ve been blindsided by the resentments and thoughts that have come up in the endings of relationships. Knowing they were holding on to that all along and yet they never shared with me. Although I know at times I have done the same. Man it’s liberating to be living in more truth
2025-12-09 18:12:22
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weebiscuit
weebiscuit :
And when you switch to no longer fawning and have an authentic friendship it is sooooo nourishing and amazing and fawners feel intolerable
2025-12-09 09:25:42
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neilanels
Swag :
The for you page is for you paging
2025-12-08 11:26:12
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thesurvivorcoach
SurvivorCoach :
I sensed this but couldn’t name it! I ended the friendship bc of this.
2025-12-07 14:39:38
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helzelaya
hellstar :
I was trying to enjoy my night, but thank you.
2025-12-08 07:19:44
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weaponizedcompethence
weaponizedcompetence :
This is the second video of yours that I see. Brilliant takes. Followed.
2025-12-08 08:55:17
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ragestartbabygurl
Pookie :
Sooo does anyone know how to bring this conversation up with their friend? Or had experiences they can share bc 💀
2025-12-06 05:59:47
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gnoknh
Hhhh :
Yup also this is why I’m also trying to have more one on one friendships now. This is way more uncomfy in friend group situations. Literally what it leads to is passive agressive behavior and jabs
2025-12-08 03:12:45
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_miss_tiff_
Tiffany :
please never stop sharing. ✨❤
2025-12-07 05:40:32
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