@therapyjeff: Is there a safe and comfy way for a guy to compliment your looks? #therapy #relationshiptips #datingadvice

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kb912
kb 🇨🇦 :
“Compliment choices not biology” is one of the best quotes I’ve heard all year and as a woman I couldn’t agree more 🙏🏼
2025-12-06 13:51:49
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auntb_theesthe
Aunt B | Esthetician :
Compliment and walk away 🙏
2025-12-06 14:04:19
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tarravin
tarravin :
yes start with the squash or tattoos or whatever, and if she doesn't respond or seem interested in talking - walk away without an attitude and go on with your day
2025-12-06 14:22:58
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indrapendence
Indra K :
“You’re asking her to perform gratitude.” That hit hard!
2025-12-06 16:41:15
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brightsunsjill
Jill :
It's also important to not block her route of escape. That sounds weird, but a man who's standing at a reasonable distance and being nice is completely different from a man in your space, backing you in a corner.
2025-12-06 16:45:16
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hollyyy2222
Hollyyy :
It feels like a salesman coming up to you. You know they want something from you and any flattery said is just to get that from you. We can tell that vs. men who actually see us as human beings.
2025-12-06 16:59:53
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sarahpersichetti
Sarah :
There was one guy on here who said he'd straight up ask women if he had their permission to flirt with them for a moment. I thought that was both cute and effective because it showed he cares about consent and he wasn't hiding his intentions. Plus, I really appreciate the clarity because people (like, statistically) are bad at knowing when others are flirting with them vs being nice.
2025-12-06 14:50:21
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heyscags
Erin Scaglione :
And if she says no, it really means no.
2025-12-06 14:19:09
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carlamariela5
Carlita :
I ALWAYS say “I know” when a man tell me I look beautiful or I have beautiful hair or whatever shit they compliment me with. I have gotten a few “you are stuck up” I responded another “I know”
2025-12-06 16:31:55
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cokescrew
cokes :
once a guy passed by me on the street and said “like the tattoos!” and kept walking.. he wasn’t engaging in a conversation or expecting anything. that felt safe compared to most street comments.
2025-12-06 23:14:45
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jj_johnson_3000
JJ_Johnson_3000 :
For all of the women who seem to be wondering why men don’t approach anymore, there’s your answer. It just ain’t worth the trouble. So come on over and say hi if you’re interested. Men don’t expect you to approach in exactly their preferred way.
2025-12-06 20:49:15
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inthroughthesunroof
inthroughthesunroof :
The one time I got a compliment on my appearance that actually felt like a compliment, I was on a very long escalator in an airport. A guy going the other way on a parallel escalator yelled "You're beautiful" before we were immediately whisked apart. He didn't look back or try to follow it up with anything. I still think about him. 😂
2025-12-06 17:56:29
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malicein504
Snarkaeology :
The most important part of this is that you started by ASKING WOMEN.
2025-12-06 15:21:00
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im_just_ducky
Frank Brockman582 :
As a man, some good advice would also be to “know when to walk away”. If the vibe isn’t there, move on. Don’t make it uncomfortable for anyone.
2025-12-06 20:28:19
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trashgremlin2023
TrashGremlin :
I had a man walk up to me in the grocery store and say "I just want you to know that I think you look so stylish and original and I just wanted to tell you that" and he walked away fast. That is still my favourite compliment 4 years later and I never saw him again. No pressure no expectations just a memorable compliment.
2026-02-01 05:13:27
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cab1024
cab1024 :
Also, if she indicates she’s not interested…STOP
2026-02-03 07:41:45
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blackstar_._77
🇨🇦 Black star 77 :
I had a guy approach me with ‘I am sorry to bother you, but you look like the most intelligent person I’ve ever seen’ It totally worked 🤣 unfortunately he was three sheets to the wind, but it was still a stellar line 🔥
2025-12-06 16:09:09
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magnettecoetzer99
Magi :
Just relate in a real way. Be real, talk human to human. So yes, style choices are an indication of who you are, a good way to compliment somebody.
2026-01-13 18:12:33
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rowdiruffboi
T O M M I E :
I was on the train dressed to meet a friend and a man told me I looked like an old Hollywood star and immediately got off the train. Best compliment I've ever gotten and it was heightened with him leaving. He didn't need a response from me.
2025-12-06 15:23:50
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moonsyne
Moonsyne :
The best line I have heard is that they admired my ability to stay calm and productive under pressure 😅 but things were literally on fire
2025-12-06 14:10:04
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nnav6
em :
Mean it. It’s so obvious when they’re just saying something to get something from you, vs when they actually mean the compliment.
2025-12-11 10:32:47
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jenni.mah
Jenni Maharidge :
Small talk is underused!!
2025-12-06 15:34:44
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kriskowalsky82
Kristine Kowalsky :
yahp, want to see how a man really acts, don't say "thank you" when they complement you 😳
2025-12-06 14:26:49
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