@dewychoo: also I wanna preface this by saying I realised this opinion is made based on Chinese wedding culture in Singapore cus I think for Malays & Indians it might be different? I’m not sure but my Malay friend’s wedding wasn’t like this LOLL it was way more chill.
Is like u choose expensive place then u expect me to bao more. Like, I didn’t choose your venue leh….
2025-12-06 17:17:40
1807
teh tarik :
i told my parents & grandparents if they want me to have a big wedding just to invite their friends and socialise they can pay for the extra pax 😌 they were not happy
2025-12-06 18:14:53
965
小灰人 :
rather have big funeral. coz others pay for u.
2025-12-06 22:22:33
1080
audreyxaudd :
I find it so disrespectful for someone to tell someone how much to put in the angpao. (speaking from personal experience)
2025-12-07 00:21:26
657
Human✨ :
Just have a small wedding and use the remaining cash to either invest, downpayment for a house or enjoy a better honeymoon
2025-12-06 20:04:30
501
Shuf | Solo Travel ✈️🗺️ :
This wedding culture needs to stop its too much.
2025-12-07 00:23:23
263
James Jim Jimothy :
My parents wanted a big wedding to invite their friends too. Just tell them if they want to invite their friends then to go married again lo. My wedding is for my friends.
2025-12-06 16:52:49
229
sobercat :
Beach weddings are so pretty…until I tried finding licensed venues in SG and omg the cost 😵💫 daylight robbery sia
2025-12-06 21:32:47
362
user4447728986541 :
Skip the ginormous over the top weddings and have a simple one, spend more money on your future
2025-12-06 16:40:00
234
x.iff :
I will never understand why I am expected to Bao for my chinese friend's wedding based on the hotel that THEY chose to have their wedding at. Also why make me so stress when yall make me write my name on the angbao or peek inside to see how much I bao. WHAT HAPPENED TO SINCERITY????
2025-12-07 02:36:48
90
Sai Samsuri :
*Chinese wedding culture
2025-12-07 08:56:21
61
Kuromi :
Small weddings ftw
2025-12-06 16:44:12
108
GILBERTYANG :
Gurl, u are ao damn right! The 30 to 50k could be used better like your future house renovation . Wedding culture in sg is not for young couples, rather to do it for the older folks!
2025-12-07 04:43:34
28
middleton :
I think increasingly more malay weddings are getting more expensive as well, although there are a lot of couples now who do intimate or DIY weddings. Void deck weddings bring out our culture the best, but after climate change + repeated complaints by a certain community, that communal spirit now has to find indoor venues where it can be more expensive
2025-12-07 02:39:43
20
Vibecheck29 :
I love a big wedding but the money is not worth 💀
2025-12-07 04:18:16
87
orangecatthoughts :
Even my small wedding is gonna cost about 18k... Tbh if not for the annoying relatives i rather just spend it on reno
2025-12-06 20:26:21
77
user11131997 :
Im grateful to have lots of malay friends. Literally they said “anything also can. You come good enough already.” Not saying im cheap, but its just heartwarming.
2025-12-08 06:01:03
7
꒰ა 𝓪𝔃𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓵 ໒꒱ :
if parents want big wedding they pay for it
2025-12-06 19:47:08
15
WigglesWaddlez :
Malay wedding is expensive also. Now really up to $30k-$50k also
2025-12-06 23:14:21
118
Aliaaaballout :
Dewy I was getting anxious because the rare beauty blush dries so fast and is so pigmented I wanted u to blend faster 😭😂
2025-12-06 17:40:33
27
Dawnnn 🌹 :
Precisely. My ex wanted to earn money from the wedding itself, he even told me that he will “only invite people- his colleagues, his bosses, people who can give “big Ang Bao”, the rest of the people, he doesn’t even bother”, I felt that the way he views people is totally wrong, and I’m glad that he’s my ex and not husband!!
2025-12-07 05:10:23
10
✮ rin taylor ✮ :
I had the small wedding of my dreams!!! it was only my 7 people. a license and mosque ceremony and that's it. home cooked food. sunset. perfect. only awhile after did my parents want to have a reception for their friends and they paid for a small one of 100 people. very lucky and privileged they paid for that but again, i definitely never regretted having the small wedding & wldve been happy with just that. it was perf
2025-12-07 00:35:57
29
ꕤ :
LITERALLY. why must u be pressured to have a big wedding ? like it is not a competition to hv a bigger wedding???? it is NOT cheap. have a wedding according to ur own affordability and not bc u jst wnt to be like the rest bc at the end of the day YOU are paying for it.
2025-12-07 03:01:19
14
Smellybellyme :
Agreed. Tbh the smaller the better. Couples who want to get married do not need to impress anyone. I rather hv a small wedding. Invite the ppl who i love and care abt. At least its nt mentally draining to entertain alot of ppl. This shld be a norm!
2025-12-06 16:45:49
34
helloitscherine :
if parents want to invite their friends then the parents should pay for the tables, not the couple
2025-12-07 02:51:56
9
To see more videos from user @dewychoo, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.