@shaythethey: Many people expect you to give them power over you by seeking their external validation. They depend on your need so that they can employ a game of hide n seek, only showing you positivity when it’s manipulated to benefit them. When emotional abusers see their words hold no weight by you, they realize they’ve been disarmed. This is when they start lying to others about you because they’re mad at how small your self confidence makes them feel. #emotionalabusesurvivor #validation #narcissisticabuse #confidence #shaythethey @YT: ShaytheThey
Once you master this, be careful if you still have to stay around them. Often times out of frustration that their tactics arent working, they will resort to violence. Be ready for that.
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Msgetwhateveriwant :
They use the death card if their other tactics dont work.
2025-12-07 02:00:49
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Pemba Ferri :
Then they start to ruin your reputation
2025-12-07 17:27:03
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Heart Captive :
Be a confident introvert.
They'll HATE you 😭
2025-12-09 13:49:25
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Kerri :
Staying completely unbothered & non reactive.
2025-12-08 20:22:17
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MissBrat_91❤️ :
I love ignoring people now. Makes them irrelevant. Brings me peace. ✌️
2025-12-07 01:11:19
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Cocosworld1111 🎀 :
Psy Abuse really is a 2 way street. Distance and heal 🥰❤️
2025-12-07 15:56:39
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Raman ✨ Intuitive Reader :
this is my inlaws - now I'm disobedient and disrespectful because I've stopped reacting 😅
2025-12-07 02:04:51
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nacho :
It’s insane how close I came to skipping The Unseen Rules of Mindset by Daniel Constantine. This isn’t just another book. It genuinely feels like something that was never meant to reach the public.
2025-12-07 16:43:28
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annoyedaf :
They become violent once they realize that you no longer care about their validation.
2025-12-07 22:32:57
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MassyRunsBaby :
Being self assured really bothers them!
2025-12-08 03:15:26
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theonlyajira♌️ :
They blocked me when they figured out I was unfazed
2025-12-07 01:37:39
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CharmLife🌸🌹✨ :
CONFUSE THE ENEMY‼️
2025-12-07 00:49:11
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Mistressofalltrades :
That’s when a lot of them amp it up and become physical
2025-12-07 18:10:25
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🧿🌀🪼🦋🌪️🏵️✨ :
its not jusy between you and them its the triangulation
2025-12-09 08:14:39
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Jasmin Wall :
I automatically feel triggered just by knowing what they're doing... is there a way to bypass this and get back to a logical mind?
2025-12-08 20:39:47
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Nikkie King :
You’ve said a lot in a short amount of time. They hope to elicit unwarranted exchanges of power, to establish or reinforce cycles of abuse.
2025-12-07 01:53:26
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🤨 :
They do know what to do. When they can’t affect you they’ll try to change other peopels opinions of you
2025-12-07 18:54:55
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Blah :
And once you stop putting weight on their comments you will see them have little spurts of anger. You’ll see how you’ll say something and they have the urge to hit you but hold off. Or they’ll get snappy in a random situation. They’re frustrated you don’t care about what they think.
2025-12-07 17:01:37
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sade.sade :
my face when my narcissistic bd uses emotional abuse
2025-12-07 19:21:43
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Bunny :
When you don’t react how they want, all they can do is punch the air 😂😂😂
2025-12-07 00:34:47
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candibops :
Thank you for this… emotional and mental abuse is has absolutely rewired my brain. It’s just as traumatizing as physical abuse.
2025-12-09 05:48:20
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