@marriedwiththemugicas: Year 18–19 is when most divorces happen… because couples spend decades focusing on the kids and forget each other. But even when your kids grow up, they STILL need you to have a strong marriage. Prioritize each other → it strengthens the whole family. Strong marriage = strong families. ❤️” #marriagewisdom #strongfamilies #faithmarriage #trending #fypシ
When my youngest turned 18, I was out of there. Marriage is for men, not women.
2025-12-08 02:00:31
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Nick :
Not to mention women are dealing with Perimenopause.
2025-12-08 01:46:12
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Jeramy With An A :
To all the people who think prioritizing your children over your spouse is wise… this is why you’re wrong.
2025-12-07 21:26:04
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S.McP :
Nooo they’re finally NOT STUCK with one another! You’ve got it backwards. They were biding their time until the kids were out of the house! You want a nightmare? Divorce while the kids are small. They probably Wanted to leave 2-5 years into it but felt stuck. It’s often a rude awakening when you have that first kid. Sometimes you realize you did not marry the person you thought you married. Babies bring everything out in the open.
2025-12-08 02:03:59
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FreeSmoke265 :
we are 20 years in and haven't had an argument yet. Not having kids was key
2025-12-08 03:02:26
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feathersandfurflytying :
If you’re divorcing after 20 years once the kids moved out the marriage was over a long time ago you were just holding on for the kids.
2025-12-08 18:06:44
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Heidi 13 :
NEVER forget to date your spouse. 😎 25 years and going stronger than ever 💝
2025-12-07 18:08:33
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texanforever58 :
menopause, it changes you
2025-12-08 06:12:01
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tonihues72 :
37 years and still happy. And we enjoy our family and our grandkids.
2025-12-06 22:08:20
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Ted Knight :
That’s why there are seperate rooms in the house. Married 33 years. Haven’t slept in the same room in 10. It’s heaven. I get a full nights sleep not having to wake up to her snoring 5x a night. Also, you don’t need to be on top of each other all the time. People need alone/quiet time. 😉
2025-12-07 11:48:13
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Maggie James :
at 19 years many still have younger kids at home. I don't think it's that. It's peri and menopause. It will make or break your marriage.
2025-12-07 15:35:49
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mrs.bow :
this is why I date my spouse
2025-12-06 19:43:32
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Bellie :
It’s usually when women are in perimenopause or menopause
2025-12-08 12:21:29
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Jen Moser :
And misunderstood perimenopause
2025-12-08 03:00:19
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rachhart06 :
I'd argue they waited until kids left the house that's why
2025-12-08 00:00:03
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Kevin :
In Illinois if you’re married less than 20 years you only pay alimony for 1/2 the time you were married. 20 years or more and it’s up to the judge to decide how long the alimony should last.
2025-12-08 01:44:30
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Lauretta Ann Grasso :
I Believe that a marriage license should last for 20 years and if you want to renew it, you can !!
2025-12-08 11:32:25
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user8729612248308 :
Stay in it for the kids..only reason
2025-12-07 20:39:16
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Coast_Life1 :
It’s not just because of the kids. Sometimes it’s the fact that the mother has to take care of everyone with very little support. The husband gets to pour himself into his career, hobbies and work vacations. Meanwhile, the responsible mother works and watches their kids while he’s off having a good time drinking and vacationing with coworkers….female and male. Then, when the kids get older, you look back and see all the fun he had without raising your kids and you just got to raise the kids alone. Then you get gaslit when you bring it up. This is why some women leave. They are tired of being treated like nothing more than a housewife when they also work a full time job.
2025-12-07 19:21:15
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KingofTexas :
Nah. It’s bc child support bends the dad over.. cheaper to keep her
2025-12-08 02:33:25
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The Upscale Miniaturist :
Your spouse comes first otherwise you are gambling with divorce once they leave!
2025-12-07 09:04:49
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The NiteKing 24 :
Waited 9 years to have kids. Our marriage always number one.
2025-12-07 19:04:23
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Steve Olsen :
Correct me if I'm wrong. But the maximum amount of spousal support that you can get maxes out at 20 years.
That might be the reason why?
2025-12-08 23:36:57
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Miriss13 :
Your kids need you to be married? Your kids need you to be happy
2025-12-07 21:38:15
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