So true. You have to accept the reality though, what you thought you loved about the relationship was never real and that person knew none of it was real for them the whole time despite what they said. They also don’t care, at all. Only you did. You wasted so much time caring about something/someone who never truly cared about you. Yes let it hurt but also don’t dwell longer than you need to or let it steal more time from the beautiful and genuine moments you are yet to experience because they certainly won’t and weren’t the entire relationship and time they were with you. As women we give too much importance and memory to moments and people which aren’t genuine. Put it out of your mind and let it go. If you showed up with good intentions and hope and they didn’t be grateful you are capable of carrying these traits even when they aren’t returned ❤️
2026-08-24 11:57:24
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mycahblevins :
when the dates align with some of your favorite memories and you have no idea if any of it was real 🥲
2025-12-07 12:46:46
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Paulina :
No because cheating should be considered as some sort of mental trauma that needs to be charged and addressed. It is that bad
2025-12-08 19:24:44
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Pal4Liberation :
Cheating needs to be a felony due to severe trauma and ptsd. But patriarchy won’t allow lawful consequences.
2025-12-08 20:46:43
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Leo Skepi :
Love you ❤
2025-12-07 20:45:10
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meldizzle_ :
I felt so violated.
2025-12-07 14:19:33
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jaidenkasey :
While I was pregnant 😔
2025-12-07 17:10:29
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lorieluisa :
i didn’t even start crying my hands just started shaking and my teeth rattling like if i was cold
2025-12-07 08:04:08
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Jessica Stearns :
Better than 10 years. You got this! It gets better.
2025-12-07 13:46:54
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Naki :
It pisses me off because they could’ve just left us alone. Just be single
2025-12-09 04:52:01
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주지혜 :
Your trauma is not your fault, but the healing is your responsibility. Your spark will come back only when your core beliefs change. Only YOU can ignite that spark within yourself…You gotta take action in order to heal yourself. If youre confused and dont know where to start, you can start by reading Healing isnt pretty(mira hartson), one of the most transoframtive guides available right now. You deserve to have peace 🕊
2025-12-08 02:54:14
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Jadejuls :
Psalms 34:18 NLT
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed."
2025-12-08 21:49:01
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Bailey :
In a psych class, we reviewed that the shock is comparable to the exact moment someone finds out about a death that has taken place in an immediate relationship such as a close loved one or parent. (That moment you feel in your whole heart/soul drop)
2025-12-09 12:06:50
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Natasha :
Especially when you were dodging people left and right lol.. so many opportunities
2025-12-09 03:24:09
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Pratik Naik :
It messed me up so bad it ruined my nervous system regulation and caused a host of problems. Take care of yourself and find peace any way you can.
2025-12-07 23:29:15
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D :
Try finding out 5 days postpartum
2025-12-08 20:26:33
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seekersseekseekers :
Go COMPLETELY NO contact. Then get therapy. This is the fastest way to get over them. Breakups are literally like drug withdrawal (there are studies) so you just have to wait for your brain to calm down. I was like u and now I dont even think about him. Just give it time love ❤️
2025-12-17 08:56:35
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Michelle Morales :
cheating should be illegal fr
2025-12-22 22:24:22
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giuls.conos :
what about the panick attacks that follow 😓
2025-12-08 22:46:36
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carollsanders :
your gut will tell you
2025-12-19 00:06:17
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princ3sskiki :
i’m so sorry
2025-12-08 23:20:15
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jay :
Cheating & betrayal is the worst type of hurt especially somebody you had feelings for
2025-12-08 15:08:06
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khaylaeyrich :
Same girl. Found out a couple weeks ago he was cheating our entire relationship. It gets easier ♡ in a few days, you’ll be so disgusted by the thought of him. It hurt when I found out but I don’t even care anymore.
2025-12-07 20:09:17
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AngryCarebears :
The worst feeling in the world. And I lost my dad, doesn’t touch the feeling of pure betrayal and deceit
2025-12-07 01:03:47
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