I drag myself to events I really don’t want to go to, even if I have a valid excuse for not going, because it’s SO rude to cancel. I would never. Two types of people in the world.
2025-12-07 02:04:07
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dandanmarie :
I return the energy. Especially as a single girl, why is your engagement, wedding, baby showers, kids parties more important than my celebrations? If I can go out of my way to listen to the wiggles and screaming kids, you can come to a 2 hour dinner.
2025-12-07 02:45:23
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tahliyuh59 :
i had a 21st last year and there was SEVERAL people that said they were coming and were so excited and just… didn’t show up. didn’t even tell me. so rude
2025-12-07 05:38:47
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CEVO :
This is soooo normalised these days
2025-12-07 04:51:43
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Missn :
People don’t like inconveniencing themselves for anyone anymore.
2025-12-07 04:37:55
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JANAE :
Does no one get FOMO anymore likeeee i never cancel ever bc i always want to be going somewhere or doing something. Like there’s been times where i’ve said no to something early on and then changed my mind last minute and gone (it was okay to go at the last minute i promise)
2025-12-07 07:35:42
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Bec Houterman :
I would no longer be friends with them. It’s really disrespectful.
2025-12-07 01:21:23
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Charley 🐚 :
I also feel like I’ll jump through HOOPS to make it to someone’s special day no matter what. Yet I feel like when I do things people won’t come just bc 🥲
2025-12-07 07:52:38
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Casey :
Everyone wants a village but no one wants to be a villager!!!!
2025-12-07 06:46:56
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Jessica Lee :
This happens to me all the time and I find it incredibly rude
2025-12-07 05:56:07
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xzaviyah :
I was a villager & went to my friends graduation just to find out they all hated me & it was pretty much a pity invite 😂😂 but at least I showed up 😂😭😂😂😂
2025-12-08 10:27:06
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mackellaaaa4 :
Prioritise the friends who show up. Don't invite the ones that dont anymore, that's what I do. Their loss.
2025-12-08 00:53:01
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🪷 :
people don’t care about community anymore and then wonder why everyone is so lonely 😭
2025-12-08 03:10:10
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vanessadethomasis :
Is it just me or has this become normalised after covid? 😅 … people definitely don’t show up like they used to
2025-12-07 11:40:15
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Aidan :
Past couple of birthdays, invited 40-60 people (good friends etc) 15-20 show up. Very grateful for the people who come, VERY telling for the people who switch last minute. 😭
2025-12-07 13:57:49
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Storm♍️🌸 :
Sometimes they didnt wanna go in the first place and should've been honest.
2025-12-07 07:27:01
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Loriana 🤍 :
IT IS SOOOOO RUDE
2025-12-07 03:39:40
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KIARA THE EXPLORER ☁️ :
This year was the first time in 32 years (as far as I can remember) that no one cancelled/bailed on my birthday, and it reaffirms that I finally have the right people in my circle ❤
2025-12-07 07:49:09
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leila ꩜ :
I had all my “friends” cancel on the day of my 18th bday bcs they were all hungover 😭
2025-12-08 05:29:04
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Tamz 🦋 :
THIS is why I don’t organise anything with anyone! I’ve done it for years. I no longer make effort with anyone who doesn’t for me. Trust me, MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY AND CUT THEM OUT 👏
2025-12-07 05:40:41
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mads :
As someone with chronic migraines the amount of times I’ve bailed last minute is criminal. But otherwise I’d be spewing on the bday gal
2025-12-07 06:22:06
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Lauren Elise :
Agree!!! They can make it - they just don't want to.
2025-12-07 05:17:23
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nikitakmartinn :
Biggest disrespect - cancelling 15 minutes after the event STARTED
2025-12-08 12:56:31
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brit11112001 :
One of my closest friends rang me an hour before my birthday and said she forgot and wasn’t coming. Literally broke my heart HAHAHA
2025-12-07 14:48:16
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josierees_ :
I’ve cancelled two events this year bc my friends can’t be bothered to rsvp or if they do then yeah right before say they can’t make it. I’m not going to put effort in to host you if you can’t make effort to come.
2025-12-07 23:12:31
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