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banill :

i always love everyone more than they love me 🫤

nessi🎼☮️ :

I’m so attached to everybody, but I feel like I’m just a normal person to them. I don’t feel important

jcꨄ :

I humiliate myself every time

🍓 :

i am ., why do you think im not attached.

 :

I feel like such a fool, it’s embarrassing 😂

Jacob Alvarado :

I hate how much I love unconditionally

emin :

the timing couldn’t have been more crazy

Tomás.Ramón :

I was like you. People are always going around telling you to just “get over it” and “just think positively” in order to actually heal and love ourselves and that will somehow fix all our problems but thats just not true. A lot of people don’t actually know how to heal or what that even means really. According to psychology it all comes from the core beliefs that you formed as a child that to keep yourself safe that haunt you in your adult life. So you have to learn to regulate your nervous system. unlearning your old, toxic belief system and re-learning a new, healthy belief system. re-parenting yourself. building a healthy relationship with yourself by treating yourself like a good friend or a good parent would do. In other words…sitting with yourself and choosing your piece over anyone else's. Only you have the power to change your life and your belief system. Doomscrolling and wishing that time will fix everything won’t do it. If you want to learn all this right now and to heal properly, I strongly suggest reading a book called Healing Isn’t Pretty by Mira Hartson asap. One of the best transformative guides available right now .

𝓜𝓸𝓻𝓮🖤 :

I swear that everyone needs to read Within Her Stillness by Emma Halden at least once in their life. GIVE YOURSELF THE LOVE YOU DESERVE!

bella ☆ :

no one will ever put as much effort or care for me as i do for them

J𖦹hanne :

I can’t repost, but I was here

￴ ￴￴ :

I always end up being disappointed

jiji 🐌🐟 :

we accept the love we think we deserve

oli :

i just love them more than i love myself

xx :

Im either overly attached or overly avoidant

Velvet :

I just want to have the same effort returned

nasla :

If you’re fighting your own battles and trying to improve your mental health, ''Breakout Dark Depression'' by Veniverse is a great book to pick up. Once you finish the last chapter, you will realize how much good is waiting for you in the world.

Anny Bande 🤍 :

traducción: Me rompo el corazón al esperar que la gente esté tan apegada a mí como yo a ellos.

soffiia.rh :

“Me rompo el corazón esperando que la gente esté tan atada a mí como yo a ellos”

i$ka🐈‍⬛ :

That boy was supposed to be different

. :

tradução: Eu quebro meu próprio coração esperando que as pessoas estejam tão apegadas a mim quanto eu sou a elas.

Nadicazi :

I hate how attached I get when I truly deeply care for a person

orla :

yvonne.lol :

haha lol

mari 🪐 :

every single time