@kylie.brewer: This woman literally pimped me out to hook up with a guy… She left me alone with 4 random men right away. It was SO uncomfortable #leftist #feminism #girlsgirl #lgbtq #antiracism

Auntie Dimes :

met a girl on BumbleBFF when I first moved out of state. As I’m parking, she tells me she invited two other friends and I’m like that’s fine, we’re all trying to make friends. They were men. It was a “double date”. The other man thought I was aware and spent the whole time apologizing and HER date was insufferable and had the audacity to flirt with me when she went to the bathroom. She also gave us all COVID. Never spoke to her again 🙃

Jen :

I hope you called her out on the site, thats dangerous!

StreetTok :

Sweetruin :

Seriously this. I’m 41, and the last thing I need is another male centered friend.

user81716262620 :

girl that’s so scary!!

Author L.R. Olson :

Join bookclubs! Obviously it’s not perfect, but it’s best way I’ve found to make friends

EmGee🇵🇷 :

I just wanna congratulate you for having the knowledge you have at that age. 🥰When I was 23 it was the early 2000s and nobody talked about decentering men. 😭

Carmac08 :

how can the women who aren't male centered meet each other?

flourandfind :

The Black Christmas remake was a good example of this. Terrible movie but good example

The Real McNiel :

This is why I don’t leave the house anymore.

ILYTB :

Did you call her out on the page? What was the response?

Blind author & activist :

Oh, no. That wasn’t cool.

GabyP.2399 :

I just turned 26 years old and AroAce.....makes me happy for my orientation because I cannot deal with that nonsense 🙃

HZUCHELLI :

similar thing happened to me like 15 years ago. sad to see this still happens

emo_blondie.xox :

right i hate it i always prioritize my friends over a man never could understand that mindset

Jeri :

Or they'll put you in dangerous situations from pure carelessness

Bonbons97 :

Call her out in the group. I’m so glad I found my partner 20 years ago, dating seems brutal right now!

squirrelytails :

NOOOOOO!!! Girl. I’m so sorry. I hoped you turned and ran.

🏃‍♀️ :

OMG wow!!who does that and it’s so sad bc i would love to go out with someone if it was a normal post

_thatsxxtei_ :

I would’ve stayed to make sure she was safe but I definitely would’ve caused a scene in and outside the group afterwards

katdoor :

The level of desperation I’m seeing in the last few years is honestly pathological 😭😭

toxiklullaby :

I vented to one of my mates about all the issues in my marriage and she sent all the screenshots to my husband at the time, added him on fb and blocked me

Eric D Edwards :

Wow