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mcslpdr :
You can’t put boundaries on other people. Boundaries are for yourself only. “I won’t talk to your husband and if he comes to family events, I will leave” is the boundary. “Never speak to or around me” is not a boundary, it is control.
2025-12-08 13:12:09
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thatoneblackgentlemen :
This is either jealousy, racism or betrayal
2025-12-09 03:50:52
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CrazyMadAlice🇨🇦 :
Anyone who hates your partner, does not get to be around your children.
2025-12-08 12:01:44
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morganvstheinternet :
STRANGER?! He's her BIL! Once someone marries into your family they're not a stranger anymore! OP needs to correct her sister becuse you're BIL dropping off food isn't a big deal!
2025-12-07 21:05:53
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✨Ratty Ratfink✨ 🇨🇦 :
I've usually been proven right after a while when I don't like someone instinctively and I always trust my gut for it
2025-12-07 21:56:27
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MimLikesBread :
I trust my gut and if my gut doesn't like someone, I listen and it hasn't been wrong yet. HOWEVER OP directly asked het sister and her sister said nothing- if my gut is getting the bad vibes I would be telling my sister "im getting the bad vibes". and maybe as we talk about it the bad vibes will chill out or we work out what my issue is. but OP's sister just seemed to not want to talk to anyone 🤷🏽♀️
2025-12-07 23:17:36
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Emily Spinach :
The sister didn’t set a boundary. She dictated a rule to others and that rule is for her parents’ home. Frankly, she doesn’t get to make rules in her parents’ home.
2025-12-08 18:48:21
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Mochi Mochi :
1) boundaries are for yourself. If sister doesn’t like husband, she should remove herself from the situation, not the other way around. Also she can’t disallow bil from coming to the house because it is not her house. It’s her parents’ house, and the parents welcome bil and grandson. 2) you can have a bad feeling about someone and still behave somewhat decently around them. You can be wary and interact less or not at all, but you don’t have to be downright hostile. Being able to be in a space with someone you don’t like is a necessary skill in society. Again, if she didn’t want to, she can remove herself. 3) she shouldn’t be rude to op when making demands. It’s an easy “I don’t want to talk to your husband. Please tell him.” But she disrupts the whole family’s vibes cuz she’s unable to regulate herself emotionally.
2025-12-07 23:41:07
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Naomi :
Anyone I have disliked the moment I met them ended up being a horrible person. It just takes time for other people to see.
2025-12-07 22:29:36
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Kirsten Poking :
1. Boundary: a boundary guides my behaviour. " _I_ don't respond to texts after 10pm." _Ask yourself - What am I committed to doing or not doing?_ 2. Rule: a rule tries to control someone else's behaviour. "Don't text me after 10pm, unless it's an emergency." _Ask yourself - What am I trying to control?_ 3. Expectation: is about what you hope others will do. "I expect this specific person to show up on time." Your expectations set the stage for disappointment or communication. _Ask yourself - What do I wish others would do?_ 4. Standard: a standard is about what you allow in your life. "My standard is that I surround myself with dependable people." Your standards shape your circle. _Ask yourself - What do I allow or not allow in my life?_
2026-01-16 19:42:48
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Spooos :
I completely understand having gut feelings about people, but a lot of the time, gut feelings is your brain noticing small things about a person and putting out a warning but being unable to give specific. which means, there has to be SOMETHING for a gut feeling to occur. if the sister is being honest and saying that the BIL didn't do anything, then she's just disliking him for no reason.
2025-12-08 00:38:30
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Crazy Hats & Stories :
there's always a reason why, though sometimes the person might not understand what it is themselves yet which is valid.
2025-12-07 22:26:45
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Wolvy 🇨🇦 :
Marcus here like
2026-01-21 22:13:48
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Sarah Cooley :
Off subject; Where did you get that cat tree? I need it today!
2025-12-08 12:39:19
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Elixe in Michigan :
Even if its something like intuition, that doesnt give you an excuse to misbehave. boudaries are for yourself not others. "i will not come out of my room if he's visiting" is a boundary. "he's not allowed to talk to me" is not. and even if your intuition is right about this man, this behavior will not help. If you think someones partner is bad for them, being weird about it is a great way to help that partner isolate them. your best chance is to just be nice and friendly and then be there for them if they need it in the future.
2025-12-08 11:13:51
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user :
7 years is crazy, surely something happened
2025-12-07 23:45:40
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Silver 🍉 :
people talking about "there's gotta be something cause intuition" while that can be true, please remember that sometimes people are just jealous, and sometimes people are prejudice, all of them are possibilities
2025-12-08 17:52:08
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Rosette :
Intuition is a big thing. Sometimes I just get a vibe that someone is off and don’t have evidence ever or until years later. I will play nice but keep them at arms length anyway
2025-12-08 14:01:15
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Susan Wensel :
Why did sister agree to be MOH if she didn’t like or trust BIL? Why didn’t she talk to OP before the wedding? Sister’s behavior is not making sense.
2025-12-08 00:26:51
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DeadInside :
I’ve heard this story it’s cuz he exist. She was mad op was happy with him.
2025-12-08 04:07:40
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Alex Parker2636 :
yo tell me who the golden child and even the sister treats her like the golden sister
2025-12-07 23:14:29
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*NeuroSpicey-Pagan* :
boundaries aren't for other people. those are rules
2025-12-08 13:50:59
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🏴☠️redneckdaddy81🏴☠️ :
actually people who have a mental health issue they can absolutely hate some one for absolutely no reason
2025-12-08 01:58:48
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Elika225 :
I’m Neurodiverse, there have been multiple occasions that I had an immediate ick from someone… every time it was for absolutely no reason and every time I was right. If sister is also, I’d look into him further.
2025-12-08 03:41:35
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June and Zeus ❤️🔥💙❤️🔥💙 :
I need the updates!!!
2025-12-07 21:55:34
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