@troyagain: I’m reposting my reaction to the study at the centre of the University of Oklahoma controversy about gender stereotypes because I don’t want to name, even obscurely by first names, the students who gently “teased me”—it was 40 years ago; at least one is now a friend; and I hold nothing against the others. It really wasn’t, and isn’t, a big deal (for me). So, I didn’t think it appropriate to mention names of people who I’ve little doubt are good people. #gender #universityofoklahoma #stereotypes

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pollyglitter17
Polly 🇨🇦 :
perhaps the teasing went away because you didn't care or get worked up about it? Bullies usually like to get a rise or torture their victims. You weren't any fun for them. What a lovely attitude you have. You are like a brilliant ray of sunshine 🌞
2025-12-08 22:06:06
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nishikataeiga
Cathy MMH 🇨🇦🇩🇪🇯🇵 :
❤️❤️❤️your content. Don't let the haters win ❤️❤️❤️
2025-12-08 06:45:23
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readyforacuppa
Cate Lowther 🇨🇦 :
You were a beautiful child 🩷, but wit is everything, and you have it in abundance. 🩵
2025-12-10 04:27:26
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mingoparadis777
Lindap💙🇺🇸🪧🇺🇸💙 :
I was taught if you don’t have anything nice to say then be quiet. Or, do what I do and drive around saying WTF. It’s especially satisfying at a red light. 😏
2025-12-08 13:18:13
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heidiwynnnz
heidiwynnnz :
well said. greetings from New Zealand.
2025-12-08 05:19:41
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lynnewibb
Lynne Wibberley :
💐💐💐
2025-12-08 05:29:10
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secretsquirrel40
Bec :
I find this very interesting. Now apologies at the directness of this, but I’m super intrigued at how your parents or parent raised you? It seems like as you do now, you had quite a decent sense of self and developed strong internal validation perhaps supported by a very open and loving home where gender norms weren’t strictly applied? Probably not the best way I could phrase my thoughts/question this late in the day but the psych student in me is intrigued and I feel like I’m going to go off on a research dive on the variables that contribute to certain outcomes from bullying 😂
2025-12-29 09:52:00
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bootle88
Bootle88 :
🥇
2025-12-08 05:26:09
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gustakh_heretic_infidel
Kafka (Gustaakh) :
“Don’t know why” comedic timing is admirable.
2025-12-08 08:11:05
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rendenim
Ren (She/Her) 🇦🇺 :
my son has very long hair. in prep (when he was 5) a number of students continually, intentionally misgendered him. at first he didn't realise they were being malicious. many adult men in our friend circle have long hair. there was only 1 girl in his class with brown hair (all other girls were blonde, as is my son), and she was one of the kids being nasty to him (her parents were also), I was there when he hit a light bulb moment thinking she meant because of his hair colour - he was carefully reassuring her that it's OK no one thinks she's a boy because she doesn't have blonde hair, people can have any colour hair! she got so mad, and he was so confused, because he thought he was being kind. he's now 8 and I've seen him sit down with kids of all ages explaining that hair length has nothing to do with your gender and people can wear their hair anyway they want to. it's been at least a year since I've heard about anyone at school calling him a girl.
2025-12-14 09:29:25
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