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“His idea of comfort was getting away from me”
2025-12-08 21:06:37
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<3 :
why do avoidant and anxious people always attract each other 😭😭
2025-12-09 01:08:16
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reo :
they punish you for loving them
2025-12-09 07:27:12
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DEEJA. :
the comments acting like avoident people are the actual devil oml 😭😭
2025-12-09 17:23:59
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FR Rhythms :
real love is meeting in the middle
2025-12-08 22:34:36
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day 3 of giving an avoidant space
2025-12-09 03:57:17
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Delia :
Space is not the problem, the problem is that their idea of space is full on disappearing for days at a time and neglecting their partner's needs as well. I don't think even a person with secure attachment would want their partner to disappear for days at a time.
2025-12-08 21:42:58
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Indie ✿ :
As an avoidant, it's so hard to explain why we need space.
2025-12-28 13:28:14
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Br4yden12 :
I wanna be her safe space so bad
2025-12-09 00:25:27
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Ctrl+Z :
he just couldnt do it anymore and broke up with me.. ive always tried to convince them to meet in the middle but they couldn't do it anymore.. during the mid and end of our relationship we couldnt call like we used to, cant play together like we used to. it was all just falling a part..
2026-09-23 22:09:28
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Line :
She simply said everything I feel and I'm shocked
2025-12-10 21:47:44
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忍 :
i hate the fact that i’m so draining to be around for people
2025-12-08 15:06:48
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gliv :
dating an avoidant never again
2025-12-09 00:04:49
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Mavalynn 🪳 :
My avoidant bf ignores me when I cry, he gets frustrated when I’m sad, he plays video games while I cry, even if he’s the one making me cry. It’s really hurtful.
2025-12-09 11:48:41
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Mahogany :
a week is neglect
2025-12-09 18:36:41
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Veronica :
Being obsessed with your partner isn't okay either
2025-12-12 10:30:59
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🎣 MiiMow🔜MFF 🌊 :
A week for “space” is actually insane💀 Sure, maybe a couple of hours or a night to sleep it over while thinking (with a little reassurance) is reasonable…. but a week is crazy. It just gets to the point where you just straight up don’t care.
2025-12-09 05:54:03
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Rose :
I am going through this right now
2025-12-09 11:12:54
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 azeu  :
it hurts
2026-01-18 12:48:55
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🩷 :
Why r u explaining my situation
2026-01-20 10:30:44
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advik .. ! :
i’m an avoidant person, and i will say that in the moment, yeah, we want to get away, but from personal experience, it’s not because we don’t love the person or anything. for me, it was just so overwhelming and scary to have someone so attached to me, because it really sets the perspective of "whatever i say will affect this person" "their mood also depends on mine", and i think that the idea of having to emotionally support someone else when you can barely emotionally support yourself is so scary. our idea of comfort isn’t necessary "getting away from you" it’s getting away from any issues we might have. in my personal experience, i do feel better after being away from that person, but that’s because i just felt so overwhelmed by the need to have to emotionally secure this person, when i myself didn’t need that reassurance, ykwim? but i definitely agree with what ur saying. avoidant and anxious attachments definitely do not mix well. it’s weird they pull each other in so much
2025-12-10 03:22:45
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pixiepresidentee :
“I need, I need, I need” sounds as selfish as someone ignoring you and demanding space. It’s literally the same coin different sides.
2025-12-10 11:34:01
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nanami :
I'm in enemy territory because i need my me time
2025-12-10 09:55:29
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Joe Black :
Honestly, I agree with most of the avoidant stuff, but there is a limit for the excuses and explanations. The ”avoidant” person is a person who lacks emotional maturity and is not fit for a relationship. If they cannot take care of someone else’s feelings or even their own, then they shouldn’t be someone’s partner. They have to grow up and realise a relationship is hard work, on both ends! As someone said: Even if you’re a ”secure” person, you wouldn’t like this kind of childish behaviour. End of story
2025-12-09 12:22:11
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char💗 :
me rn btw
2026-02-03 00:58:26
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