@ownitbabe: casually crashing out in the kitchen while watching my kids play 😅 easiest thing in the world is to love them. I hope they grow up never doubting this #momof2 #motherhoodunfiltered #MomsofTikTok
My dad had dinner with me before my daughter was born and gentle said “I want to warn you that you’re about to learn just how wrong your mom has treated you all these years. And it’s going to hurt like it’s fresh again. I need you to know that you were never hard to love.”
2025-12-10 04:09:47
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Saydee :
Since having a child, my relationship with my mom has gotten so much worse because I cannot imagine treating my child the way she treated/continues to treat me.
2025-12-08 18:38:46
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Gen ❌ Gal 76 :
I don’t think our parents carried the emotional intelligence we have 💖
2025-12-09 20:40:20
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JessAshley (Mama of 2) :
I just don’t understand how so many of us were raised by the same stupid ass parent lol
2025-12-16 19:04:34
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Velvet Echo LLC :
Yes!! When I had my daughter it healed parts in me I didn’t even know were broken.
2025-12-08 17:35:44
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Denise ❌️ :
my mom used to "curse" me with this as a kid. I ended up having one just like me and learned that I wasn't hard to love, she just didn't understand me. I now say to my kid very lovingly "I hope you have a child just like you because you make everyday good" I changed the curse.
2025-12-18 16:10:04
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Darth Grizzly :
And that is how you get rid of generational trauma. Way to go mom. Love those kids and heal your inner child. From a stranger to another, love you!
2025-12-09 20:01:42
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chyannefonseca89 :
My mom said this to me💔but then I had daughters who have the biggest most loving hearts so jokes on her
2025-12-10 02:26:29
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Hanna Matus 🌬️✨ :
The amount of times I heard this “I hope you have a daughter” “”I hope you have 5 daughters”…. Some parents think they want children, but actually don’t want to be a mom or a dad.
2025-12-10 02:54:21
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Candice Nannenga :
The saying should have always been “i hope you have daughter like you one day so you can see how truly beautiful and easy you are to love”. Now we get to be the ones that change the statement for the better ❤
2025-12-08 21:06:53
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Rosie :
it's because they mean control not love
2025-12-10 18:29:17
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drhera :
My mom says to me “I hope you have a daughter exactly like you” in the most negative sense
2025-12-15 17:04:32
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LAN BOYCE :
This was screamed at me through my childhood too
2025-12-08 18:55:05
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MAYA OLIVE🥑| lifestyle+health :
My mums completely put me off wanting kids and I have intense fear I’ll be like her
2026-01-13 01:01:29
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deannatracey :
It’s a real shitty feeling knowing just how your mom really feels about you
2025-12-15 00:29:48
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Bryte :
My mother always said she was putting the mothers curse on me that I had a kid just like me. Jokes in her, me and my son are both fucking AWESOME!
2025-12-14 01:18:39
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joyce_wilson_ :
Good lord my mother says this or relates everything to this all the time. Im here with you sister. It’s exhausting to hear.
2025-12-09 15:58:06
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Corbin Govers :
I had a kid just like me. she f-in rocks.
2025-12-11 04:37:19
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Sunvi :
I'm sure raising a child will both heal me and make me so mad
2025-12-19 15:39:07
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marian :
You’re doing great, momma 🖤
2025-12-16 13:19:11
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travisvaughan17 :
Hats off for breaking generational trauma
2025-12-10 20:09:44
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tia :
jokes on her i am officially too scared to have kids and have the same relationship!
2025-12-13 00:27:27
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alexlozoyafitness :
I hope your kiddos heal the parts of you that you didn’t know needed healing ❤️🩹
2025-12-09 16:23:58
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user5955778013467 :
I heard this. I have chose to break the generational curse and not only parent my children better but my inner child. We are happy.
2025-12-09 18:46:21
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amanda_rose_m :
This one. I didn’t end up having girls, all boys here. But I know I wasn’t hard to love. My mom just wasn’t a loving mother.
2025-12-09 18:06:05
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