@singlemomsaga: No contact isn't a trend. Its not to punish the other person. It comes after years of begging, fighting, pleading and crying for an apology. For change. It is the final boundary after all others have been ignored. Its accepting that it will never change and choosing to move forward alone. I am the child. And I chose me because she couldn't. **When she got released from Federal Prison in 2009, I tried to kick her a$$. I failed miserably because I was drunk and only 5ft 2. 🤷♀️ Thank God for recovery and therapy. #estrangedparents #singlemomsaga
This is going to be my first Christmas no contact and it hurts and sucks. But I know it’s for the best
2025-12-08 17:10:14
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Sheri :
It does get easier. 58 here and the last 40 years have been THE BEST.
2025-12-08 17:42:52
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sdsgde :
I didnt miss my mom. I craved a mom. When she died, I felt so much relief. I watched her die. I didnt shed a tear until weeks later when it set in that I will never have a mother. I'm so thankful for the relationship my daughter and I have. ❤️
2025-12-10 10:51:30
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dawnrdawson :
In order to live, truly live a healthy life you must cut the poison out. unfortunately a lot of the time that poison is the one that is supposed to love and protect you.
2025-12-08 18:53:04
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cb3994 :
I’ve been no contact for 15 years. It still hurts. But instead of focusing on the pain I turn that pain into purpose and make sure that my kids know that their mother loves them more than her own life, that no matter what I will never leave them, no matter what they always have a home with me, no matter what they do I will always be their biggest cheerleader.
2025-12-09 04:28:38
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Harmony34 :
It took almost 50 years but I got the; I knew something was off..haven’t talked to her since. I’m sorry but glad you chose you..it’s NOT easy but oh so worth it!!!
2025-12-09 02:47:14
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Tone Capone❌️ :
BIG HUGS!!! Its so hard with our parents that NEVER think they are wrong! Had the same relationship with my mom fornyears as well.....she passed in 2020 and I still feel the conflict come out! ❤❤️PROUD OF YOU! ❤❤
2025-12-09 10:54:30
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Anna061594 :
Wow, it’s sad that this will unfortunately resonate with a lot of people. I’m so sorry and am thankful for the angel of a mother I had!! You are strong woman and from what I see a fabulous mom!! Your boys are lucky to have you!! 🙏😊💙
2025-12-08 17:49:18
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Jaime❤️ :
Here’s to healing ❤️🩹
2025-12-09 04:11:55
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🏝Trudy The Beach Lover🏝 :
Very Powerful and courageous.. Always protect your peace 🙏
2025-12-08 17:49:41
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59ladyred :
We can not make them into the parent we wish they were. Removing toxic people from our life is ok. Allow yourself to grieve the loss and move on.
2025-12-09 06:03:54
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Amanda 🇨🇦 :
I think a lot of us millennials had narcissistic parents. 😔 I think it will take a lifetime to heal from the hurt we experienced from someone who was suppose to love and protect us endlessly. To you and anyone else who has drawn boundaries to protect your peace - I’m proud of you. I’m also proud of those who are trying. It’s hard - but we’re worth it. ♥
2025-12-08 18:48:23
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Hulkita :
No contact is the best way. It’s how I have survived. It does get easier. I’m sorry you went through that. Here’s to healing 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
2025-12-09 19:44:50
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Ellzbet :
sending love and peace ✌️. raising ourselves isn't easy
2025-12-10 13:43:05
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antheab2271 :
I went contact for 15 years.. and it was peaceful. I don't regret it.
2025-12-10 08:51:00
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Barb❌ :
You made the best decision in protecting yourself and your children. There’s a definite peace in that.
2025-12-08 17:20:29
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BeenieWWW :
I'm so sorry.
2025-12-08 19:10:09
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LaRendaK :
I find it so hard to believe that someone doesn’t love you the way you should be loved. I am sorry for that. I am glad you found your person. ❤️
2025-12-09 21:50:48
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Michaella :
10 years.. Mum and Sister.. I did mourn it, but now.. have never been more at peace 🥰
2025-12-09 18:27:19
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🎀 Niki 🎀 :
Been doing no contact with with my whole immediate family for 14 years. Thank God for my daughter. It sucks grieving a family thats alive but feels dead to you. I have given my all and. Irwin myself down mentally. I just hope someday the holidays will be different.
2025-12-09 16:02:11
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chronically.mental.erika :
I’m at that point right now. It’s so hard to finally take that first step, especially when I have a kid too. But I can’t do this anymore.
2025-12-11 08:45:20
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Kristy Cobbs :
Hugs ❤️
2025-12-09 18:28:48
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RoamingRN :
Grieving my living mother, is an interesting run of emotions.
2025-12-10 01:09:57
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💜⛓️💥𝕂𝕣𝕚𝕤𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕒⛓️💥🤍 :
I feel every bit of this too!!! We just have to stay strong for ourselves and keep out the toxicity even if it is our family or who we thought closest friends
2025-12-08 20:39:36
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