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Blue Bomber :
1. Quit attacking the charities. They are victims too. 2. Use the discovery process in the divorce. I’m not an Oregon lawyer but I bet it’s a wide open process. 3. File a lis pendens on that house to tie up the title. 4. Get your credit report - it’s free- to see what he’s done in your name. You are entitled to those credit apps that have your name on them. 5. After you have as much info as possible, take his depo. Take his girlfriend’s depo. 6. If those are his kids too quit calling them YOUR kids - it’s horrible optics.
2025-12-10 00:52:07
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Rufaro :
Try the post office police, they have like a 99% conviction rate
2025-12-09 06:16:59
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Miss K :
If your sons are still legal minors, go in and put a freeze on their credit right now. Oregon is a communal property state. And if he closed on the house or you guys were still legally married, that house is technically half yours. And so is the house that you and your kids living its part. Anything acquired together while you are legally married is considered Communal property, his house or your son‘s house actually, his vehicles, etc., etc. because you guys are not legally divorced yet just technically separated. You need to go after his retirement, he is investments, half of any 401(k), and anything else he’s trying to hide from you. You need to help your sons file for identity protection since he obviously knows their Social Security numbers. And you need to contact the Social Security office to make sure that their Social Security numbers are not being used elsewhere in his shenanigans. My father put all of his businesses and all of his debts in my mother‘s name without my mother, knowing. When they finally got a divorce, my mom owed almost $1 million in back taxes for the businesses and since he filed fraudulent personal taxes, she also owed for that with interest. Thankfully, her parents failed her out of debt completely and helped us financially help my mom pick up the pieces. I was 12 at the time. If he is your son‘s biological father, you need to protect your son’s credit. A parent can take out utilities using a child’s information, etc. etc., just like you learned that your soon to be ex-husband bought a house in your son’s name basically from the sounds of the story. The next thing you need to stop talking about this story online. Why your attorneys have not told you that yet I do not know. Anything you say on social media can potentially hurt your chances of winning your case and believe me he already has every single video downloaded for his own defense. Remember, you got a be smart. You gotta outsmart sociopath, which is very hard to do. He’s obviously been doing this his entire life, I guarantee you’re not the only woman who has done this with. There is documentary “the Tinder swindler” that might give you insight. And take this to the Oregonian.
2025-12-10 16:31:22
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LauraArcherwife :
If you’re getting a divorce attorney, get half that 401k! They’ll do a QDRO and it may take a little time but he cannot touch that once you’ve filed.
2025-12-09 10:27:04
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MistyAnnnn ✨🥔 :
Force the sale of the house in the divorce
2025-12-10 01:41:21
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deboradoyle :
I would think the IRS would have dove all over this.
2025-12-09 17:52:34
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Gimmesnacks :
THIS IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!! when I got a divorce my x husband did things like this to try to punish or control me.
2025-12-09 11:40:29
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Jae Jae :
Do you know who the lender is for his home? I’m an account manager of multiple mortgage companies and I have 1 client who does have Proud Ground loans. If it’s with my client, I can ask how they handle mortgage fraud.
2025-12-10 21:13:28
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Teal :
If it was purchased during the marriage aren’t you entitled to half? I’m assuming that’s why he mentioned retaining it because the judge presiding over the divorce wouldn’t have authority regarding the fraud right?
2025-12-09 16:00:28
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thegraffixguy :
There is a organization out there that tracks and identifies individuals that say that they have cancer or they’re the dying of cancer, blah blah blah and they actually prosecute them from what I remember seeing don’t quote me on that but I do feel like that is a real thing!
2025-12-09 06:44:39
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Sysleeeeeee :
Please keep us updated love. I can’t wait to see the blessing and justice God will give you and your babies 🙏🏾❤️
2025-12-09 05:30:14
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Tamara :
Why don’t you contact all the local news outlets someone will listen to you.
2025-12-09 20:17:26
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🇺🇸 Jo Ann :
Yes I pray you get justice you so deserve it
2025-12-31 19:39:14
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Jo - 56120 :
Abuse, gaslighting, manipulation it goes on and on 🙁🙁
2025-12-09 05:06:04
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Katrell :
Find out who the mortgage company is. They assumed a loan under false pretense.
2025-12-10 01:30:27
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Drake :
Find out what mortgage lender he used. That should all be in discovery for the divorce. You actually have to know what the debts are. Notify them. It's mortgage fraud. Notify your state and any state business or his home is located in attorney general (check Secretary of State for business info especially if it's LLC under another LLC you want to literally file a complaint for every single thing attached to it) with the Attorney General, FTC, IC3 dept of FBI (internet crimes). Maybe HUD,FHFA &CFPB (consumer financial protection bureau)
2025-12-10 05:36:02
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maribella6786 :
I'm rooting for you and the kids. 🤜🤜🤜
2025-12-11 00:11:51
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Fawn Lynn :
my heart hurts for you
2025-12-09 05:53:31
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tprada :
Rachel, you are one tough cookie!! Stay strong. 🙏 And women are called the gold diggers? 😡
2025-12-19 17:51:47
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Christina💖🤭 :
Omg‼️😮💨
2025-12-09 06:04:18
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🧁Micah 2.0🍨 :
He did this before finalizing the divorce? What a goober. That was silly. Take this to your divorce atty
2025-12-09 22:03:01
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maribella6786 :
Did you contact Office of the Attorney General in your state?
2025-12-10 23:56:39
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Ari :
You need to contact the Oregon Attorbey General Office and/or the Oregon department of justice. L!nk in the reply comment below. Be sure to include info about the new house in your divorce proceedings. Also consider contacting legal aid for help with the divorce if you can’t afford an attorney.
2025-12-17 23:05:31
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Pow239 :
I can’t believe this!!
2025-12-09 16:05:29
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anne :
You should make a gofundme for lawyer fees
2025-12-09 18:52:31
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