@thetreasureshopnl: The Lure of the Unavailable Crush 🌌 Why do we always crush on the person we simply cannot have The answer lies in emotional safety The unavailable crush lives in a constant state of perfect fantasy they cannot call us back, they cannot disappoint us, and they can’t shatter the idealized version of them we’ve created in our heads It’s a low-stakes emotional connection We get to feel the thrill of attraction and vulnerability without the actual, terrifying risk of a real relationship It’s a quiet, beautiful form of self-protection What is the one trait that instantly draws you to someone even if they are unattainable Tell us below 👇 Follow (us) @valzigo for daily content like this! No copyright intended. All footage and music belong to their rightful owners.