@kiergaines: Can’t do it all at once, but you can do it bit by bit.

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christoffer1977
Christoffer :
Therapy... once you start it.. it never ends. You just gradually become a better version of yourself if you are open.
2025-12-10 19:45:58
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eleftheria.pl
eleftheria.pl :
Personally I found out that the "therapy" part is actually the hours and days after the therapy session itself after everything had time to sit with me
2025-12-11 11:11:25
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zoilalibertad
ZoilaLibertad :
The real therapy is taking what you learned from your conversation with your therapist and actually putting it into practice over a lifetime. I learned very quickly that I want to be in therapy all throughout my life. It’s about understanding and learning new skills and coping mechanisms as you evolve through life. I absolutely love therapy.
2025-12-12 17:26:02
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naeneezy82
nayomayo :
“Sometimes the goal is to knock down that first wall” real.
2025-12-17 16:25:40
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yakshini_martini
YujaWangOfNursing :
I hope his analogies made the concept of therapy easier for people to grasp and therefore explore the option. It’s nice to hear it broken down without the side of arrogance or judgement that sometimes goes along with it.
2025-12-12 11:53:24
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glenncocoa1
buttermilkbiscuits :
This is for the Grown Men
2025-12-11 16:25:28
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mbrcounseling
Shek :
As a therapist, Therapy is an amazing Journey requiring commitment to the discomfort it will take to make the adjustments you need 🥰🙏🏻
2025-12-10 20:43:32
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mrmarcomo
Marco :
Took that renovation metaphor right out of my head. Exactly what I thought. Takes time. Even when you're "done" there's always maintenance and upkeep. Mental health should be an ever evolving project. Sometimes you need to tear down a wall, sometimes you just need a fresh coat of paint. Take what life gives you and roll with it.
2025-12-11 00:10:21
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sherrigyrl
SherriGyrl :
Therapy is not just you talking for an hour. And it can make you feel worse before you can start to feel better
2025-12-12 22:06:46
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angeleyes1986
TheAudacity :
He used some wonderful analogies
2025-12-13 12:50:24
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irisheren
Eren :
Definitely the conversation that we need to be having! As a therapist, thank you!
2026-01-04 14:56:27
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prettyblessed1of1
🩷PrettyBlessed🩷 :
As a future therapist, I appreciate this so much. Healing is the best thing you can do for yourself.
2025-12-22 07:14:24
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misscrabbycake
Crabigail 🦀🇵🇸 :
this is such a great metaphor too bc you still have to live in the house while you're renovating!! you cant make it uninhabitable while you're trying to fix it
2025-12-11 15:00:22
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pameladenise25
Pamela Denise :
I rambled for an hour today. Told my therapist “you got 2 minutes to respond” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 1 hour is never enough. I need 1 hour to ramble the. 1 more hour for Q & A 🤪
2025-12-11 04:11:45
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unordinary__travelist
Travel Influencer | UGC :
Took me 3 years to see the things I was needing to change/heal
2025-12-11 00:21:59
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mindandmanifestations
mindandmanifestations :
Thank you from a licensed therapist this is GOLD‼️
2025-12-26 18:28:44
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angelavaughnlpc
AfricanQueenV :
I love this conversation!!
2025-12-12 18:01:06
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wellnessofhope
Shakiyla Hart | WellnessofHope :
As a therapist myself, I say therapy is a place to HOLD space for the things that take UP space in your life. Especially in the beginning
2026-01-09 21:34:26
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nomadic_blacksheep
Nomadic therapist, ASW :
I love those analogies
2026-01-26 16:38:16
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mamamvfff
V.💛 :
The analogy used is so good! It took me over 2 years to get to this version of me 🩷 one session, one layer at a time yall!
2025-12-12 21:54:14
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therapist_delarue
Therapist_Delarue :
I’m a therapists and I approve this message 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
2025-12-20 10:04:32
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theejasminesnow
Thee Dr. Snow to Be ❄️ :
Yes! It's truly the best gift that we can give ourselves. I love working with my clients! I love that you have this space! I am working with more men now, and it's a beautiful experience.
2025-12-11 05:56:26
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ladonnababe
LaDonna Babe :
I love the analogy. everything is a process
2025-12-22 02:54:18
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blcklillth
BlckLilith :
Explained perfectly
2025-12-23 17:02:52
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