@bayavoce: Most people enter relationships hoping their partner will heal the parts of them that feel broken. That their love will finally be the thing that makes them whole. But wholeness doesn't come from being chosen. It comes from learning to hold yourself through the moments when no one else can. The shift happens when you stop asking your partner to be your emotional savior and start becoming the person who can meet your own pain with compassion. Not because they failed you, but because some wounds need you to tend to them yourself. Real partnership isn't about finding someone who won't hurt you. It's about building the capacity to love yourself through the inevitable moments when they do, when they're human, when they can't show up the way you need. That's not resignation, it's the foundation of something sustainable. #relationships #healing #selflove
The issue is not how to mend my broken heart but how to trust my heart to the same person again and again knowing that they will break it.
2025-12-13 06:59:37
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hojita de laurel playero :
I know it's not the point😅 ..but I'm confused as to why was THAT what you decided to say as vows?
2026-01-23 12:18:50
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Martha :
That was your “highest self” speaking to you🥰🥰
2025-12-17 14:57:56
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breadlooker :
I didnt know youre wlw!
2026-02-09 04:11:43
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WellSav :
Love this
2026-05-11 23:52:10
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theblkalchemist :
so powerful.
2026-01-06 15:03:30
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Sena :
you are so easy to listen to
2025-12-13 13:53:37
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Tyah :
Needed that trust me it makes more SENSE and its something you never hear wow powerful shield for your heart 💙💙💙💙
2026-02-14 16:05:00
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Tūkiteao :
Who is cutting onions? 🥺
2025-12-13 23:50:11
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The_Vagas_nerve_CNX :
this is immaculate self care 👑❤️✨
2025-12-18 11:59:12
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Ambrosia Appleseed :
snaps 🫰🏼🫰🏼
2025-12-16 06:34:28
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elise_bien :
Beautiful ❤
2025-12-13 11:23:33
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supermari01up :
But how do you know it’s time to stop and set limits on allowing your partner to keep breaking your heart?
2025-12-24 22:08:59
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Chaotic Solitude :
Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
2025-12-14 05:25:37
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Cc :
Love it
2025-12-13 12:27:13
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gwen alcantara :
Thank you for sharing such a meaningful insight. ❤️❤️❤️
2026-01-13 01:14:42
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kathybaldwin Unlearn the crap :
OMG I love this. Thank you for sharing we needed to hear it 💕💕💕
2026-01-28 16:27:34
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TrueConnectionGuide :
♥️♥️♥️
2025-12-22 10:50:57
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niwkhcaeb :
🔥🔥🔥
2025-12-14 03:42:52
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niwkhcaeb :
💯💯💯
2025-12-14 03:42:56
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JL :
🥹🥹💗
2026-01-21 00:38:13
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igel :
Being with a good partner actually teaches you to respect and love yourself more. I always say to my gf that she loves me so much I started to love myself too.
2026-01-29 04:47:31
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