✨Orga M🫧
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nalingakayo :
As an African woman, if he didn’t pay for your bride price you’re clearly ain’t married
2025-12-16 22:13:59
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jojopheeny :
hmmm I also didn't want my bridal price however when a man sees how you disrespect your family, he will eventually do the same.
2025-12-16 15:29:24
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One Person Like That :
Your parents had a valid reason
2025-12-16 07:45:18
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PugloveUnite🐾 :
Your husband is your family now. Block whoever didn’t show up.
2025-12-15 05:06:59
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Diamante Kashama🧊 :
This is the consequences of coming to the western world. Tradition gets washed down and looked at negatively
2025-12-16 12:56:07
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MamaBanke :
As much as you would require him to buy you an engagement ring your parents have the right to demand the bride price. Stop deminishing our culture .
2025-12-23 01:44:49
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Hair by G :
So u don’t have ur parents blessings for your marriage?
2025-12-16 17:18:50
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L E R A T O🇿🇦 :
that's a valid reason for them not to come👐👐
2025-12-23 06:04:02
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Ama Saturday :
It might seem okay now, but as time goes by, you'll understand. Be mindful, traditions are traditions, and culture is still culture. Even if your partner doesn't have the required money, any amount is okay. The spiritual and physical blessings and favor from parents will follow you. Don't think that because you were raised in the western part, you can ignore this, as African cultures remain the same.
2026-02-05 16:03:15
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Sims 🇨🇩 :
The comments are not it 🥴 I get that it is important to honour our traditions and honour our parents, but I don't agree with parents being so hell bent that they refuse to attend the wedding as that could fracture the relationship they have with their child.
2025-12-18 09:22:55
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🌸Sommy🎀 :
You go learn the hard way
2025-12-23 13:36:01
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I can’t wait :
I’ve never seen an African lady not get bride price. This is new
2025-12-16 12:52:49
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BahSun :
We agree with your family. That's disrespectful.
2025-12-23 15:04:08
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Bubbly person :
I stand with the parents
2025-12-23 07:12:30
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abi :
you made your decision they made theirs. sorry if you don't like theirs just as they don't like yours. embrace your decision and consequence
2025-12-23 07:53:41
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Testimonies of faith :
You are funny
2025-12-23 07:50:41
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managerchap :
Why would you disrespect yourself like this ? Anyways you would learn eventually! People value you based on the value they see other give you !
2025-12-23 15:06:02
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LOVE AND LIGHT✨ :
You let your parents know about their child wedding a month before the wedding?????
2025-12-23 13:52:07
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DIZOMID :
Give to Caesar what is Caesar’s and to God what is God's (Mark 12:17). If you understand then that's the Answer
2025-12-23 07:42:50
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sleepy_taurean :
Honestly so proud of you for standing up to that nonsense bride price culture. Wishing you the best married life, ignore the negativity and focus on your future
2025-12-16 10:54:22
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T🍋 :
More context is needed because surely your husband would want good relations with the in-laws . This was a bad move on your part
2025-12-16 14:14:27
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Be_Tee :
Bride price is culturally important. To be honest, it is the main wedding recognised by African culture. It gives respect to your parents and family. Ps: it doesn’t have to be big, flashy or anything of sorts.
2025-12-18 14:42:27
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Emmanuella Alaku :
Wrap it up
2025-12-23 08:45:56
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Mzjenal :
Bride price is not about paying for your parents taking care of you… it shouldn’t be expensive or exaggerated. It’s a token/gesture to prove to your parents that he is taking you away from them and he PROMISE to take care of you no matter what… and with you accepting his proposal you promise to do the same! And commit to each other! ( translation in modern world: if you take something that belongs to someone you pay for a deposit and you make sure to keep it intact and well just as it was given to you and you loved it.. that’s someone’s precious gem so take excellent care!). This proofs your man respect your family to commit to you and will ensure he abides to take care of you. Then you get both family blessings… there is 2 sides to each story and would like to hear the full story..
2025-12-13 13:30:42
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₉⁹₉kira :
I hate that bride price tradition, what will happen if you don’t pay it? Nothing 😂😂 abeg do what you want my dear
2025-12-17 12:14:41
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