@hannahameliaviney: Apparently calm isn’t boring. It’s just unfamiliar. WHO knew 🤷🏼‍♀️ #fyp #adhd #adhddating #adhdadults #nervoussystem

ynes.fm ☻☆ :

limerence also literallllly feels reminiscent of addiction. staying celibate is a form of sobriety when you use s*x as a form of escapism. thank you for talking about this!

MOLLIE 🌈🪩🌸🦋 :

Consistenency feels so BORING

Roxy_Cox :

“Consistency feels flat.” OMG. What a perfect description.

Robinski202 :

Biggest red flag when they like you

mijukica :

"we stay loyal to versions of people that only show up occasionally" damn girl

Mark :

‘We attach to potential’ is SO true .. I kinda wanna find a women who simply understands me an adhd - or is that just a therapist? 😅

Chantelle 🇨🇦 :

No one taught ADHD people anything. I’m 47 and just NOW figuring my brain out and how to work with it.

figes45 :

Yes it’s the dopamine high you get from inconsistency! The ‘reward’ feeling when things are good will happen more intensely if there’s the lows of a relationship/connection being bad. Finally learnt this after 10 years of horrible relationships. ADHD education has been so focused on how it affects productivity rather than relationships and susceptibility to addiction, thank you for your part in changing the narrative!

444ashleigh :

Could have told me this two divorces ago 😭😂

mjcabincrew :

No bc the gaslighting part is sooo dangerous if you have such foggy memory already and someone tries to tell you that didn’t happen, so traumatizing

Ismiseniall :

I’ve recently entered a relationship and it’s so healthy for the first time in my life and it feels so random… like what is happening… no hyper fixation or obsession bc it’s not toxic lol

TheLennart :

Well the trick is being too scared to date so problem solved

💙HollyC💙 :

wait a damn minute....👀

itsniamhchristian :

“How have you never had a proper long term relationship” yanno this constant craving of whatever I cannot have and bored of whatever I can

nina :

Oh … okay did u read my journal

Ellie :

Then imagine having audhd 🙃 my autism will crash out without consistency, meanwhile my adhd is soooo bored without some spontaneity.

Purple :

Particularly vulnerable to narcissist abuse x

Skimm :

This. Is. Spot. On. Thank you. 🙏

JodieLouiseXx :

Oliver :

Someone said to me 'relationships that start in flames often end in them too' and that really helped

clarey :

Oh gosh you’ve just described my whole love life in one ♥😩

SwanCullen :

This was stressful.

Anohr :

I don’t have ADHD but you keep describing me. 😬

just me ❤️ :

omg a friend explained LIMERANCE to me, I had no idea what it was but explained so much 🙈

Jay & Bettyswallocks :

You win the Internet 🙌🏻 Thank you 💕 also love how you spoke so quickly only ADHD peeps could actually keep up 😀