And then when you try to stick up for yourself somehow YOUR the villain???
2025-12-16 18:35:57
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et :
Very important to remember that the way they treat you isn’t an indicator of your worth
2025-12-14 20:02:25
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Ryleigh :
so insanely valid. everyone wants a village but isn’t willing to be a villager.
2025-12-14 03:45:04
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lulo.rojas :
I used to think men pulled away because I wasn't pretty or interesting enough, which left me anxious and needy. Then I read Make Him Your Toy. The way she explained how being overly feminine and agreeable creates boredom was eye-opening. I tried the three-second silence technique and saw an immediate change. The same man who'd brushed me off at dinner suddenly leaned in and asked if I was upset—he actually cared. That night, he couldn't stop messaging me. The book made me see the dynamic clearly for the first time.
2025-12-15 18:07:35
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mar1a.z13 :
and im too forgiving even if it hurt so badly
2025-12-15 00:48:51
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Erica.Parrish :
I was like that. People are always going around telling you to just “get over it” and “just think positively” in order to actually heal and love ourselves and that will somehow fix all our problems but thats just not true. A lot of people don’t actually know how to heal or what that even means really. According to psychology it all comes from the core beliefs that you formed as a child that to keep yourself safe that haunt you in your adult life. So you have to learn to regulate your nervous system. unlearning your old, toxic belief system and re-learning a new, healthy belief system. re-parenting yourself. building a healthy relationship with yourself by treating yourself like a good friend or a good parent would do. In other words…sitting with yourself and choosing your piece over anyone else's. Only you have the power to change your life and your belief system. Doomscrolling and wishing that time will fix everything won’t do it. If you want to learn all this right now and to heal properly, I strongly suggest reading a book called Healing Isn’t Pretty by Mira Hartson asap. One of the best transformative guides available right now . i LOVE this book it def saved me !!
2025-12-15 15:25:53
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Ninja biscuits :
Empathy without boundaries is a recipe for disaster.
2025-12-17 01:39:52
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⋆. 𝐋𝐮𝐜𝐲𝐕𝐚𝐧𝐏𝐞𝐥𝐭𐙚˚ :
why is everybody so mean
2025-12-15 23:12:34
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colie >ᵥ_ᵥ< :
that’s why you just HAVE to put yourself first no matter what. you’re the only person who’s never gonna leave. dedicate all that time and energy to yourself instead.
2025-12-15 03:28:54
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Inderpal S :
I’ve learned this lesson so so many times that I don’t really care anymore.
2025-12-14 19:29:39
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𝓒𝓱𝓮𝓹💗👩🏽🦰 :
Just remember:Never stop being kind💋
2025-12-15 22:23:01
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Naye 🌙🌺 :
Literally ending the year feeling like a piece of garbage but alas this feeling isn’t new
2025-12-15 04:40:50
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Jessy_spokanestylist :
Love like Jesus.
2025-12-28 06:14:53
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flamewalkerglauco :
full vid?
2025-12-18 02:01:29
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toni✨🐨🫶🏼 :
literally, it’s becoming SO draining
2025-12-18 00:41:52
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𝔪𝔞𝔱𝔱 ✩ :
and it's not a reflection of you!! it has everything to do with THEM
2025-12-15 14:49:56
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💫aisy :
This is so true. 😞
2025-12-16 00:11:40
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Luuu :
“You can’t just sit there and put everybody’s lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love.” -The perks of being a wallflower Sometimes people are mean and you gotta put yourself first
2026-01-20 06:27:21
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rhianne_365 :
bc it's not abt you it's abt them
2025-12-15 05:20:45
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jorj :
unfortunately this is so real 😫😭
2025-12-16 04:51:28
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Zoz :
and then you stick up for yourself and everyone just pushes you out and goes against you
2025-12-18 04:47:29
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raieysha :
silent repost
2025-12-17 05:00:36
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Angel4187 :
Don't change the way you love, just be reserved for the people who actually deserve it. it sucks to go against your good nature but no everyone is like you. but thats what makes you unique.
2025-12-31 07:49:03
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jasmine 🩺 :
treat yourself with the same kindness and empathy that you would treat another! don’t let others harden your heart :)
2025-12-15 14:11:03
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𓂃۶ৎ :
and that it isn’t our fault in the slightest <3
2025-12-14 05:58:10
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