psych student here! no. what people with avoidant attachment need are safe and secure relationships. they are the way they are because at some point in their life (mostly childhood), closeness stopped being safe.
2025-12-21 23:46:22
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riris :
No one “deserves” loneliness as punishment for how their nervous system learned to cope.
2025-12-21 18:57:24
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They just need the right people
2025-12-21 12:22:50
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ᴄᴀᴍᴍʏ ᝰ.⁀➷ ✶˖·˳.𖥔 ݁ :
Avoidants deserve love but no one deserves the love an avoidant has to offer
2025-12-17 03:19:50
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V I E L :
how it feels reading the comments as an avoidant:
2025-12-21 15:49:22
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mountainedew :
Wow do y’all think we’re evil😌
2025-12-21 07:35:15
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tamtꫂ🎭 :
Me reading comments as an avoidant:
2025-12-21 13:40:26
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(^_^) :
damn yall are so rude . I also want love I am just scared 😭
2025-12-21 12:48:10
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Pea :
reading these comments as an avoidant
2025-12-21 13:07:10
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anya :
me after reading the comments
2025-12-21 18:49:36
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binatog :
no one deserves to be alone
2025-12-21 15:45:31
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ⵊⵉⵎⴰ :
we are alone what are you talking about
2025-12-21 15:27:56
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Guida 🕯 :
me as an avoidant reading the comments:
2026-01-15 23:25:39
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🏁 :
reading comments and saw that this is how they see me
2025-12-22 00:17:44
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️ :
who am I to judge myself right?
2025-12-21 12:58:09
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aizaizaiz :
nope i love my girlfriend! she's the best
2026-01-20 18:05:31
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as a person with anxious, they don’t deserve to be alone but, it’s very exhausting to wait and adjust for them. they do not deserve to be alone but, it’s hard to keep adjusting for years for them only to get pushed away again then blamed. don’t get me wrong, they deserve someone but, sometimes, their issues are hurting people and it’s exhausting to wait, adjust, and forgive.
2026-02-04 18:18:34
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user10854278567 :
Y’all are the living proof why avoidants exist.
2025-12-23 10:43:33
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jsomeone :
noooo, they deserve the love they actually neeeeded for them to understand themselves. they need a right person to do that. someone who understands why they act that way.
2026-02-07 02:45:37
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ynviel_ :
reading the comments as a avoidant:
2026-02-05 09:57:32
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🦫 :
no. they're actually the most genuine person I know. They have so much love to give, they just dont know how to :)
2025-12-21 15:29:06
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user025379777 :
I never asked to be this way twin
2025-12-23 06:23:09
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☆ :
Bro I actually hate being an avoidant. I’m so sorry to everyone, we really do try
2025-12-21 18:17:30
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