i didn’t realise my poor mental health made me self centred. it was so unintentional and im so glad im aware of that now i feel so bad ://
2025-12-15 00:13:16
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Prince Fi :
I went from social butterfly to having social anxiety… mad
2025-12-15 01:53:02
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cassandraa.gg :
Heavy on invite them bc most of time they lonely too n waiting for ppl to reach out!😭
2025-12-16 02:35:47
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Twat A. Master :
This!! And I am currently realising that I need to actually show my friends that I need them and want them around me. For years I have operated with “be simple and happy. If you’re not happy - stay home. Don’t bother people with your problems. But show up for them, comfort them, listen to them, but never expect them to do the same for you. Never ask them to help you”, and it didn’t dawn upon me that I then deny them to get to know _me_ as well, and that is so hard to unlearn lol
2025-12-15 12:32:25
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Bri :
Step 1: have friends Step 2: have money
2025-12-15 01:33:56
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Ellie :
As someone who’s spent a long time trying these things, the best way to make connections is showing up regularly with the same ppl in the same place
2025-12-16 22:39:46
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Bri :
When I meet people they are cool at first and then start being weird to me and then I distance myself
2025-12-16 01:24:28
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⭐️ :
So like what if i haven’t messaged any friends in like 9/10 months because of isolation and depression 😭 i wanna reintegrate myself because i miss them so much but idk what to say, i just really put my life on pause
2025-12-15 02:08:14
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Rue | Style Inspo :
😂😂😂
2025-12-14 19:40:22
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velvet.dread :
Step 1 have friends 😭😭😭
2025-12-15 01:11:30
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A_casbolt :
Step 1: already have friends and people are you to invite
2025-12-15 02:02:15
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R. :
okay, but it gets to a point where you’re the planner for everything and your friends don’t wanna invite you or contribute to the group and they all hangout separately anyway.
2025-12-19 00:52:30
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britszn :
this is really good, I relate to being overwhelmed with too much communication & struggling to extend invites out of fear of rejection I usually face but it’s necessary!!
2025-12-14 23:18:53
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Efya Mensah :
I suffer from social anxiety tho 🥺🤣
2025-12-14 23:21:25
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khadijah🌎 :
Celebrating the small wins is something that’s a guaranteed community builder. Just got a new apartment? Celebration! 1 year anniversary of going to the gym? Celebration! Had a good mental health week and your just generally feeling happy? CELEBRATION !! I would like someone to do the same for me because it shouldn’t take years to show someone flowers
2025-12-16 02:38:35
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Terra :
some people will just make excuses and blame everyone else no matter what, but this is all good advice
2025-12-27 04:50:28
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Rawrraven :
I don't have anyone to go out with as I moved out of London and. o one out the effort of coming to see me after I made 6 trips over 3 4 months so I gave up
2026-01-01 13:41:25
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Jas✨ :
Thank you for this I’ve been isolating myself for over a year, struggling to get back into it
2025-12-15 00:45:03
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Mufaro K :
We all just need to get out of our heads and take the practical steps to creating a community
2026-01-30 23:24:47
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Abi’s diary1 |Styling| Beauty :
I love it! People don’t realize that the world keeps moving even if you decide to isolate yourself and whenever you’re ready, your people will be happy to have you again.
2025-12-15 23:08:51
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Sundial :
FACTS and talk to people outside! Compliment someone randomly or don't hesitate to help people or ask if they are okay!!! You will not make friends but you will be happy to have made connections with someone that maybe needed it
2025-12-18 00:13:22
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truthwedidtalk_444 :
I go out, go to events I like to find ppl who like similar things but my discernment is always ticking off. I just want blakc friends who care about the blakc community, wanan travel or do new things, connect with the ancestors, heal ourselves and love ourselves
2026-03-29 17:37:33
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SHANSSS 🇲🇸 :
Didn’t know I needed to hear this 🥹🥹
2025-12-14 19:58:52
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tommy_baeby :
I’m socially awkward🥺
2025-12-16 01:47:51
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Marinara :
Step one: do things you like and do it alone, the right people will show up
2025-12-15 23:21:44
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