Kesha Speaks
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Shawna :
My husband brought the pastor over in a lst ditch effort to save the marriage. He told me God hated divorce, my response was if he can forgive my husband for putting his hands on me, he can forgive me for divorce.
2025-12-16 12:36:44
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TaiAndria :
Religion doesn’t teach men “how” to lead, it teaches that men ARE leaders. That’s why a lot of them think however they show up is “leadership”.
2025-12-17 00:23:42
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Lola @ JoyRide :
Ugh! Religion had me praying for my husband, sacrificing myself and for what? For an emotionally unavailable man! Ugh! I definitely felt this. 😳
2025-12-15 02:10:23
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ariaxiaswor :
I stayed in a very abusive marriage because of my faith until the pastor of my church pulled me into his office and explained that I was a daughter of God and he would never want one of his children to be treated the way I was. I knew it was bad when the church supported my divorce
2025-12-16 00:09:02
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Lindsay 🦆 :
so many affair recovery accounts on here are religious. they encourage women to forgive the unforgivable
2025-12-14 23:25:22
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Avandem :
Whewww I felt this! “God is not a substitute for emotional intelligence”
2025-12-15 06:08:31
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Allegedly Lilith :
I blame the patriarchy. The patriarchy hurts everyone!
2025-12-15 00:54:11
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troop_nation :
I’m a man, but I have to say I was raised in the church, and I’m struggling. None of my questions have ever been answered. My wife has asked so many questions that I can’t answer, and the church told me I needed to lead my household and get her under control. I think I’m in the midst of deconstructing, and it is terrifying.
2025-12-15 01:25:20
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oh_smappp :
It wasn’t until my 30s when I realized my low self-confidence and low sense of self-worth was because of religion. Till this day, my parents still credit God for any of my accomplishments. They have never recognized my success as something I earned through hard work and dedication.
2025-12-16 16:51:51
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Jennifer Linneman123 :
And if you didn’t get married by a certain age, there was something wrong with you and everybody was talking about it.
2025-12-15 14:10:58
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JLaShay :
I've never married but yes. The fact I'm 40 with no kids too....they act like I committed the biggest sin
2025-12-19 07:01:44
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CasObserver :
Seriously. I would never have married him had it not been for religion.
2025-12-15 17:11:15
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traceyhunt679 :
Yep yep yep you are right!!!!! Yes I got married at 19 stayed in a physical abusive relationship where I was beat up daily for 8 1/2 years and was told by the church divorce was not an option. Until a police officer told me I needed to leave
2026-01-11 13:58:24
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The Beantellect :
"God is not a substitution for emotional intelligence" OOFFFF
2025-12-16 16:52:51
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Barbara Sanders :
Yep, I agree. I was married 13 years the first time and then he passed away, now on my second marriage 20 years, yet I agree with this. Men want to control women, not see their heart and that control is not the way to hold a marriage together. I grew up in an abusive home, so I am not the "submissive" wife.
2025-12-26 22:23:41
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shelleymcbee :
My church actively encouraged me to stay in spite of them knowing he was abusive. Churches care more about marriages than people.
2025-12-21 18:10:12
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sandyfuoco :
It took me yearssssss to finally understand what you just said in minutes. Amen!
2026-02-01 13:01:18
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debbiekaspar722 :
It took me 58 years to figure this out. 58 wasted years.
2025-12-23 14:51:50
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Sharae’s_Venom🐍🇺🇸 :
Sis- I FELT THIS. specifically because I had my kid at 27 with no ring, I held my head high & pursed my Career & i’ve gotten so much judgement but now im pursing my Masters degree 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 oh still not married but my son father is a great dad without is needing to be married 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 i left the church culture in high school
2025-12-17 15:45:49
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Miss B. :
Yup and leave a healthy relationship bc it’s “unequally yolked “ bc it wasn’t the same religion…
2025-12-15 03:15:53
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Sage_And_Secrets :
You are on point 🔥 I left religion because my questions were many without response.
2026-01-01 21:39:21
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Bethaney 🌻 :
Currently deconstructing. My thing has always been, you say God is a God of love so you cannot convince me he wants us stuck in a marriage where we’re abused, made to feel less than, and miserable. Why would he want that for us..nope can’t be convinced
2025-12-15 12:09:46
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Dom… :
“…being chosen was more important than being cherished”
2025-12-17 12:35:47
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Fanou :
I felt this! As a Haitian American woman who grew up with a single mother and four siblings this brought me to tears. I pushed through and can say I did pretty well for myself. I’m a teacher with a Master’s degree. Debunked Christianity for personal reasons, closed on my house 3 years ago. Doing my best to heal and find out who I am. You know what I hear EVERYTIME I encounter family: Where’s the husband and kids coming? I won’t lie and say it doesn’t sting but it also makes me inadequate a lot. Then I have to remind myself I’m breaking generational curses for my nieces and cousins. You were born a female which doesn’t mean your sole purpose in life to to become a wife and mother. Chase your dreams and ambitions whatever they are!
2025-12-20 11:48:25
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Artice 🌷| :
The biblical guilt is a chokehold I know all too well. Got pregnant living with him, him in ministry of course church was telling us to marry. Now I’m dealing with a man who ignores me, won’t communicate with me but I will leave and become a better version of me.
2025-12-15 01:10:01
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