@missclairebenjamin: How to Handle the colleague who’s a bit shady… Shady behaviour can be quite subtle and difficult to call out. Like the example shown in this video. You may sense the way the person is behaving is a bit disingenuous but without context it could look completely innocent. Your automatic reaction may be to deal with it head on. I would recommend you take a step back and approach it in a way that is most likely to allow you to influence the situation. This requires 3 key skills: 1️⃣ The ability to regulate your emotions in real time 2️⃣ The ability to clearly articulate what you’re seeing and experiencing BUT without playing into power dynamics 3️⃣ The ability to influence the person to rethink how they behave around you specifically If there is someone in your organisation you can flag this too and who can support you to navigate it I would also recommend doing this. 💬 What advice would you offer to someone navigating a situation like this? 📌 Please remember the advice offered in this video is generalised and will not fit every situation. Therefore, please use your own judgement when using this advice and adapt it to suit your situation. ➕ Follow for more strategies on navigating tricky work dynamics #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #emotionalintelligence #corporatelife #communicationskills #assertivecommunication #difficultsituations
Or, in the meeting, while her coworker is engaging in this behavior, she could say, “that is an excellent recap of what I shared with you yesterday. Thank you for bringing all of us up to speed.”
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Claire | Work people tips :
Leave a 🙌 if you’re gonna keep this approach up your sleeve
2025-12-15 19:26:25
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iisalannabel :
How do I get people to stop telling me to do a job that I know I need to do 😂 An instruction will come in via email I’m CC’d in and I begin the process then suddenly will get an email, the instruction email but forwarded directly to me or replied with everyone else CC’d telling me to get the instruction on the system. Yes. I was part of the email. This is my job. I don’t need to be told. 🙃 It enrages me. Makes me not even wanna do it.
2025-12-17 04:53:38
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Claire | Work people tips :
Have you ever been in a situation like this? Share your experiences 👀
2025-12-15 19:25:58
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asia :
@holyspiritloved
2025-12-20 06:30:47
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mebgochujang1 :
😳😳😳
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MikuNash :
👏👏👏
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