@drbeckyatgoodinside: This happened the other day with my son and I had to share. If you’re like me, you’ve had many power struggle moments with your kids (especially before school in the morning). This standoff feels awful, to you and your child, and as each of you get more entrenched in your own point-of-view, tension escalates, and resolution feels impossible. Here’s a key idea: Sometimes our kids invite us to a power struggle and it is our job to reject that invitation. The next time you find yourself in this less-than-desirable situation, take a deep breath and use this mantra: “This is not an emergency. I’ve got this.” I also want you to know that school mornings don’t have to be so hard. I have an entire program dedicated to all of the challenges we face during the school year. It’s all available in the Good Inside App. Click the link in my bio to join now.

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Gragragrace :
What if the "I'm not doing this" is a chore or something he technically has to do?
2025-12-16 16:18:37
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aliesollars
Alie Sollars :
What about if it’s brushing teeth at night
2026-01-08 16:12:57
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nah.yaaa
nah.yaaa :
What if it’s “I don’t want to wear pants” and it’s 27 degrees outside…like today 💀
2025-12-17 13:55:45
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nyornowhere1
NYORNOWHERE1 :
It’s never a fun party. 😂😂😂Good job.
2025-12-16 14:21:32
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liftingupdads
LiftingUpDads :
I absolutely love this and will be doing this! Probably sooner than I'd like to.
2025-12-17 01:09:18
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learnfrenchwithnadia2
Learn French with Nadia :
thanks for sharing this!
2026-01-30 23:42:36
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simplify.psychology
Simplify Psychology :
Hell, yeah
2026-01-03 13:22:15
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danishmohammadsyed
Danish Mohammad Syed :
Echoing the question of others - what if it is an emergency? my son has type 1 diabetes and him not having breakfast before school would actually lead to a medical emergency (as it has in the past)
2025-12-17 02:53:40
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mo36910
Mo :
😁😁😁
2026-01-05 03:53:25
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