@nicknamed.bree: 😣 I hate to be the one to break this news to you about avoidant attachment. Yes, sometimes avoidants have a general “expiration date” in mind for your relationship, and this fuels their ability to hold on to feelings of freedom. They want to have their cake & eat it too…& this is their way of doing that. All of the relationship…all of the autonomy…none of the longer term commitments. #avoidant

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jnutz_24
jnutz24 :
We fail as partners a lot because at some point we know this person is severely avoidant and we trick ourselves into believing if we love them they will change. All the while they are just using you for attention and validation
2025-12-16 15:02:14
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d0oodle2
🫥 :
"The One" doesn't last either because it triggers them
2025-12-16 17:43:31
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deplorablejoe4
PhotoJoe :
Is it possible to have any consistency while dating an avoidant? Getting her to commit to a date feels like pulling teeth. Doesn't look good for this weekend either. Sometimes it feels like we're in a relationship and other times it feels like I'm here at her convenience. Not sure how to set a boundary when it comes to reliably being able to plan things together. If we can't plan and do things at least once or twice a month that I'm not sure what I'm doing here.
2025-12-17 15:13:25
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kb600rr
KB600RR :
So pretty much the less they’re interested in you the longer they’ll stick around for the long term fun of it. But if they truly like you and see that future with you they’ll get triggered by that closeness/emotions and end up leaving early on.
2026-01-14 22:48:36
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ari.star.fire
Ari.StarFire :
A void in attachment
2025-12-16 15:21:14
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myself.music.moods
JANN :
So you’re saying that the longer they are around you the less they like you lol
2025-12-19 15:25:37
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devilsangelgyl
Devilsangelgayl :
I Unoreversed my avoidant. I left him for almost 3 years, but I went back. Now every time I attempt to leave he either gives me a task or asks me to marry him. 🫣🧐
2025-12-16 16:39:07
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leeeaahhh_
Leah :
I’m convinced the longer they can stay with somebody the more “ wrong” The person is because they don’t trigger their DA so they can stay
2025-12-18 16:52:48
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chelssteck
ChelseaSteck :
I’m pretty sure nobody is their forever person…unless it’s another avoidant or someone who doesn’t ask for anything.
2025-12-18 04:37:17
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abi_gail_lover
Abigail :
Dating an Avoidant taught me to be a much better parent to my toddler. I am greatful i met him even though it was painful in the end,but i learnt alot
2025-12-17 03:27:23
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madhatter1232
Phil :
25 years in my case 💔💔💔
2025-12-16 18:14:44
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lui_savage
lui_savage :
Avoidant’s are performative so if their social circle is leveling up and they are not meeting that social circle behavior, they will suck it up and press forward, even if it means children or marriag
2025-12-18 14:43:51
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par_performance_golf
Par_Performance_Golf :
They know, it’s a magic trick in the beginning and they bargain with souls who didn’t know they were meeting Houdini.
2025-12-16 17:02:20
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cardinal_94
Cardinal :
“The One” gets the most abuse.
2026-01-14 18:04:17
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0000000w19
... :
they stay with you untilll they find some one else
2025-12-17 08:48:13
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cnj_guy
CNJ_Guy :
I was running on hope
2025-12-16 18:02:53
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calic0queen
peach :
“Mmm i don’t think so but im having fun 😌“ HELLO???
2025-12-17 13:51:47
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arayabartush
arayabartush :
They quietly resent you.
2025-12-27 05:20:15
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nicknamed.bree
Bree | Psychology :
If I seem sad or sleepy in this video, it’s because I normally film in the morning & this was filmed in the evening after work 😂. The difference is night & day…literally. 😴 💤 are y’all early birds 🪱 or night owls🦉 ?
2025-12-16 14:44:19
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larnellwellsjr
J R Wells :
Does a avoidant really have a forever person???
2025-12-17 20:07:33
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chaoticbb223
✖️better✖️off✖️gone✖️ :
What about married avoidants? Is there an expiration for that even?
2025-12-18 15:40:36
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phoenixblaze58
woke :
What if they marry the person?
2025-12-20 15:19:06
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pedalgep
denijel :
So they're playing it smart, essentially
2025-12-16 17:25:57
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uponthehill97
caribou7 :
this is so sad....
2025-12-20 01:13:26
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bobafettlv
Ren0 :
If they know ur not the one would they still dedicate a lot of time to you? Do they still spend money on you buying you meaningful gifts?, I just wonder if they full on act like a partner yet know ur not the one?. Orrr would their be a difference on how an avoidant acts when he knows ur not the one?
2025-12-17 07:08:13
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