At 41, my relationships have become shorter and shorter. You peep the BS quicker!
2025-12-17 08:41:22
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eastbaysf 🌁 :
I've noticed the topic of dating in your 40s is usually about it being complicated and stressful. We should all agree that it can be the best times of our lives when finding a great partner.
2025-12-25 04:32:43
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hocakes123 :
You describe this phase of dating quite well! Thanks for for saying it
2025-12-20 06:20:10
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AdamH :
Interesting, I hope this is true for me!
2025-12-20 03:52:56
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Eye Urn Mike :
Patience is a virtue.
2025-12-18 02:35:56
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Tito Aquino 🌴🇸🇻 :
39 and two Divorce under my belt. I think it's time.
2025-12-21 06:59:56
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Victoria🆘🇺🇸📍🇮🇪 :
Thank you for this. Turning 40 made me feel like my dating life was over.
2025-12-16 21:07:13
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Shawn Auxier :
Can't even get a date so couldn't tell you 🤷♂️
2025-12-18 18:57:57
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badmotivatorr :
This was really reassuring and insightful. Thank you. It’s a reality I’m suddenly faced with, and honestly, at times it feels terrifying and impossible to contemplate and enact.
2025-12-17 03:30:24
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vivianaeli86 :
Yes 🙌 so true ….. still single thought 😆
2025-12-17 19:31:27
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funnylittleguysdotcom :
35, looking forward to 40s 🫡
2025-12-19 21:55:56
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Michelle Hirsch :
So true
2025-12-17 11:28:00
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Denisse Gil :
So real. Thank you 🌷
2025-12-17 22:22:53
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J is trying :
Yep!
2025-12-17 01:53:12
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Juan :
I always say “it’s weird that i needed to learn the lesson ‘don’t date mean people’ as a rule” but something about dating makes you tolerate so much until you experience it directly…
2025-12-16 20:05:31
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Chaos 🌈 :
💯 it’s so great to realize this.
2025-12-17 03:25:10
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MrBadGuy :
41 here and happy with FWB... life is good
2025-12-18 12:02:33
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Captain Awesome :
I mean, I think I’m just fundamentally unlovable
2025-12-18 19:42:37
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gjh2021 :
I met my future husband a month after turning 19. A year later we were married. I did way too much as a caring person and it later became taking me for granted and expecting me to do almost everything. I filed for divorce at 48 this past June.
2026-01-03 06:47:52
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Project Lasso ™ :
Yep…calling your insights: Julia Rules.
2026-02-08 06:55:11
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Windowsill Deviled Egg :
With a woman for 18 years. Broke things off a year and a half ago. Met someone new recently and it is already by far the best relationship I have ever been in. She is considerate, she is intentional, she is kind, she is romantic. I feel like my entire life has been upgraded.
2025-12-16 20:51:43
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