People who shut down their partners feelings always say they have to “tip toe” but it’s the opposite. The person who’s not free to express their feelings is the one who’s truly “tip toeing” in the relationship. They have to constantly eat their feelings because they have learned the second they express how they feel, it will turn into an argument. I learned to just stop expressing myself. He thinks we never fight anymore so it’s good but in reality I’m just not my self anymore. I used to be so expressive and vocal when things upset and bothered me, in such a healthy way. Now I just shut down and cry silently to myself when I’m alone.
2025-12-18 15:40:31
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Loré :
Intent doesn’t erase impact
2025-12-17 16:31:37
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slowluv33 💎 :
The men who need to hear this already scrolled past in 2.4 seconds in.
2025-12-18 22:05:11
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SwanOfGrey :
So much gaslighting.
2025-12-17 14:31:57
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jenn𖥸 :
caught him cheating, it apparently was my fault. It's always my fault.
2025-12-18 10:15:41
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agsforeign :
“I’m tired of having emotional conversations” then don’t be Ina relationship brotha 😃
2025-12-18 16:18:45
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Chloe_25 :
Just ended my relationship partly because of this. I am so tired of not being heard and having my feelings and worries pushed to the side. I’d say I’m hurt by smth he said and he would get defensive and make it seem like my fault
2026-01-18 03:39:24
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Lisa 🩵💜🖤 :
it was nothing to YOU, it was something to her, and maybe she couldnt figure it out and thats what upset her 😔
2025-12-17 03:01:26
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user4624159139127 :
Need this on HIS page
2025-12-19 07:12:59
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Artistsoul2 :
One sentence: she’s protecting herself! This is pivotal understanding.
2025-12-16 23:25:34
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Official Pythian Priestess :
SHE NEEDED YOU TO BE SAFE
2026-02-04 09:50:34
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SukiChan :
“It’s nothing though…” if she said “what you did hurt me” it was SOMETHING… it was something enough for her to say something. Stop saying people are being over dramatic when they share their feelings or set boundaries.
2025-12-17 22:53:14
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𝕷𝖎𝖑 𝕱𝖆𝖊 𝕾𝖊𝖕𝖍𝖎𝖊 :
his feed not mine 😭 im NOT MAKINV SOMEONE INTO A BAD GUY I WANNA BE HEARD
2026-01-30 03:21:46
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fasihah :
his fyp. not mine.
2026-02-04 19:07:21
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𝓶𝓲𝓻𝓪🪽 :
to his feed please.
2026-01-19 14:29:03
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Maibelin21 :
Content like this really really explains how we feel. It makes us realize we aren’t crazy how we’re being told or trying to be convinced that we are the problem. When we just want to communicate
2026-01-15 18:50:42
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FunnyBunny :
Thank You Stetson 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-01-19 11:56:42
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Tay :
She's not punishing you, she's protecting herself.
2025-12-21 13:09:45
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Nic :
It was the lack of empathy, the lack of communication, the lack of accountability, the lack of space for how I feel, lack of respect, stepping on boundaries. YALL should I leave?
2026-01-16 01:37:45
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hanne :
His fyp not mine
2025-12-19 01:08:15
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Balby :
The dude dodging everything that was said just made my heart start racing. Up the volume and add some attitude and you have my husband arguing everytime I calmly bring up an issue.
2025-12-17 13:51:59
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lilbodybigsoul :
Put this on his page not mine
2025-12-19 19:06:30
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Christine :
ugh living this moment by moment right now. heartbreaking
2025-12-17 11:55:31
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Mallory :
The psychology term for this is called a “feedback loop”
2025-12-18 17:49:38
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