I build myself for years and finally at my best version– strong smiling independent woman. Finally took risk for the person who once offered to share my problems to him. I refused at first because I don’t wanna be a burden to them but he insisted and told me that it’s better ti share those stuffs and when I finally decided to share to him, he told me he can’t handle that side of me. Like I was fine, I was ok and happy living my life, he’s the one who insisted me to share. Like I don’t need anyone to fix me because I got me. I can be the best version of myself for the people I love without needing anyone. I healed and fixed myself alone. Don’t offer me the things you know you cannot handle. I can fight ny own battle alone while being the best version of myself for the people I love. Now, we are lack of communication to talk about stuffs like this.I chose to understand him even though he confuses me because I love him. I did not leave him after seeing that side of him because I love him. I even motivated him when he shared his stressful days. I stayed even at his lowest. Because when you love a person, you don’t just leave because you saw that side of him you don’t like, you should communicate in order to understand each other and fix those differences knowing that person is trying so hard to be the best version of theirselves for you. I am not asking to fix me. I can do it alone and love you at the best version of me.
2025-12-19 16:37:39
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ClaudeNavin :
Refuse to be a pit stop
2025-12-20 22:18:02
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dearlonelyfan :
exactly and it is important to remember that it is not our job to build a person
2026-02-13 04:19:14
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MamáFénix :
I was a rehabilitation centre for 8 years . Trying to heal him when he never asked to be healed . the biggest mistake I’ve ever made..
2026-03-01 03:25:50
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EnbersM :
wise words...
Lady, you're gorgeous.
2025-12-22 11:36:10
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favourite :
Your "reality check" is valued and on point. I'm not in a relationship yet, but this is what I believe, you can give Light and Love to the degree you've become and embodied as self-evident Truth. I agree with all what you say and the conversation goes on. Respect 🙌🏻.
2025-12-23 23:25:58
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unique1244 :
Very true.💯💯💯
2026-01-26 19:10:33
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spookie :
i don't agree. i was a project to my girl at first and with her paitions im now the person who I'm today
2026-02-05 00:41:47
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Eddiekuwaity :
Perfectly said, I’ve been there and I realized I am trying to comfort the pain instead I felt like I am adding to the pain. She was comparing us not believing that she deserves a better person and why is she mistreated by the other person
2025-12-26 01:30:27
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557❤️❤️❤️ :
Yes, it's true
2025-12-17 06:59:33
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••𝙎𝙖𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙝 𝙀𝙙𝙞𝙩𝙨•• :
Best words ever🥰🥰💯💯💯😇😇
2025-12-23 07:59:37
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Mr Ingwe :
Well said 100%🤝❤️
2025-12-31 19:19:39
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Martie Potgieter :
Definitely true 🥰🥰🥰
2026-01-08 21:37:05
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🅡🅗🅞🅝🅐🅩🅗🅘🅛 :
𝐢 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬💚💚
2025-12-20 14:28:23
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MIKE :
Jesus 💯😁 jet's 💯🙏♥
2025-12-20 17:27:09
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Millionaire nay chi :
thank you
2025-12-22 05:36:34
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Mncedi Ndovela :
I was once stuck in this!! 😏
2025-12-22 17:52:14
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[Quenie] Alchemia🔥 :
learned the hard way 🤭🤭🤭
2025-12-22 04:48:21
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arbang kenneth david :
this is deep
2026-02-05 16:24:32
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Irish Gwen Bendijo :
well said 100%❤️
2026-01-04 06:58:29
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jfi :
@xhiinphee
2025-12-23 11:12:32
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Hassan Guracha431 :
true
2026-01-23 20:41:03
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Laraleecaine| Love Coach ♥️ :
Love is not enough, rescuing someone keeps you both stuck in the drama triangle and keeps them stuck as a victim that you make constant excuses for.
2026-04-06 17:18:11
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R.M Quotes :
@Chef_Tee👩🏽🍳🍽 😣😔
2026-01-30 17:57:39
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M.Pasir :
@melissa
2025-12-20 06:57:56
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