@xandrapohl: This is how I’m feeling sos help a girl out

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annie.levy
Annie :
no because being vulnerable with a man triggers my fight or flight response
2025-12-17 03:43:13
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emilyleahy10
Emdizzle :
Don’t drink on date dude it literally just confuses you
2025-12-17 04:17:04
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zarahkelleher
Zarah :
Yes I will sabotage it as much as possible and take forever to open up but what’s meant for you will never be scared of that 💙
2025-12-17 05:03:27
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hailswrld03
Hailey 💓 :
Yep 3 years single, now I love being alone too much and now I don’t want a relationship 😅
2025-12-17 03:51:26
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natthebarberr
Natalie 👑 :
I can’t even get to the date lol
2025-12-17 03:53:54
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what4breakfast
what4breakfast :
For me, it got easier to be vulnerable when I got really strict at holding boundaries and confident in myself. I’ll be vulnerable with you but the second I smell the slightest bit of disrespect you’re gone without explanation or second chances.
2025-12-17 14:51:27
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hippiechick20
Hippie chick ✌🏼🌻 :
My wall….😂
2025-12-17 03:42:16
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chelseaveikle
ChelseaV :
Terrifying! Love is a huge risk. Take the leap of faith
2025-12-17 03:44:56
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m00bie
m00bie :
You are amazinf and the right person will make u feel safe in ur vulnerable state!
2025-12-17 18:29:38
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annalysemi
Annalyse🍌💪🏾 :
Quite literally, terrified
2025-12-17 23:09:38
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alex.ripp
ALEX RIPP :
no this is so me and i hate it so much
2025-12-17 05:02:02
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amandak541
amandak :
I had a very traumatic relationship and completely felt the same. what I can say is I just kinda knew when I met my husband and the vulnerability just kinda happend on its own.
2025-12-17 04:25:49
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sadiecrowell
Sadie Leigh Crowell :
I was single for over 2 years and still feel this way.
2025-12-18 17:28:28
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nicole.graham36
Nicole G :
yup
2025-12-17 13:54:00
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brittneymarquez_
brittney marquez :
100%
2025-12-17 07:37:20
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iamashleyo
ashley :
me when a man tries to speak to me now days girl
2025-12-18 20:06:25
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rachael7716
Rachael :
Totally normal to feel this way. I got out of a 5 1/2 year relationship that gave me a lot of anxiety and also traumatized me in some ways. I’m now with somebody who is way better and healthier for me. Someone who treats me the way that I wish my partner would have treated me in that 5 1/2 year relationship. But I’ll say in the beginning it was extremely hard to open up and be vulnerable. It took a lot of communicating between us and also I’ve been in therapy for a while to learn how to feel safe with someone again. I think one of the biggest things is just taking your time and learning their character. Dating someone with good character in situations outside of your relationship will help you trust them in your relationship more. Lastly, the relationship that hurt you - I hope it gave you the confidence to recognize when things don’t feel right and learn to trust yourself because if somebody does hurt you in the future, you know you have the strength to walk away sooner this time.
2025-12-17 10:55:43
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_jaimenotjamie_
Jai 🦋 :
Coming from an elder scorpio just getting her mojo back after a long relationship; when it’s the right person it won’t feel scary. Use that intuition god gifted you sis 🦂🔮
2025-12-17 03:41:27
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kikihere13
KIKI :
Oh 100%
2025-12-18 02:10:53
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livjustliving.life
livjustliving.life :
ME
2025-12-18 02:33:34
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samantha_the_pa
Samantha_ThePA :
Period
2025-12-17 12:05:24
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idajuhllin
Ida juhlin :
Same tjejen
2025-12-17 15:59:54
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krystalwithakayyyyy
K R Y S T A L 💋 :
Sameeeeee girly!!!!!
2025-12-18 00:48:04
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jademaile
Jade Maile :
Me rn
2025-12-17 07:02:02
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saeepurohittt
SAEE💋 :
Literally!!!
2025-12-17 15:13:34
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