It depends on why they leave and whether you did something that made them leave.
2025-12-17 15:02:40
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Carrington_Rowe :
That’s God’s way of saying “I have someone better for you” ❤️🙏🏻
2025-12-17 18:09:48
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✨ Vinnie ✨ :
Healthy people walk away from toxic people and are still the one who got away
2025-12-17 18:44:14
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Sommer :
Girlies with Narcissistic ex this is not for us😂 again… This message is not for us😂😂
2025-12-17 23:06:30
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Tx.Tiff_ :
Sometimes, we merely surrender to the avoidance of the one we love deeply. It’s not us giving up on them, it’s us giving in to what they showed us thru their behaviors to be what they truly want- the benefit of a relationship without reciprocating commitment and accountability. If they wanted “forever” then they wouldn’t push away true intimacy that’s grounded in authentic love. We can’t control the behaviors desires or choices of others, but we can honor their decision to push away our patience, presence, and safety with their unhealthy or avoidant choices that unfortunately do have consequences. And FYI, while they’re quickly rebounding to a temporary distraction to move on, we are silently healing and coping with that painful decision we had to make to maintain our own dignity. Loving someone doesn’t mean tolerating disrespect. On the contrary, loving them is respecting their avoidance and granting them the freedom they crave, even when it shatters our souls.
2025-12-17 22:10:43
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sommyugwu :
I don’t agree. Sometimes leaving is the last resort, for your own sanity and peace of mind. Maybe it’s easier to delude oneself to make the mind belive it wasn’t worth it in totality. But in truth, it doesn’t matter who leaves or who is left. If you gave, communicated and wasn’t met with the same intensity, you will ALWAYS be the one that got away
2025-12-20 13:40:08
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Chelsie B :
Easier said than done
2025-12-22 15:16:15
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WinterKnitter :
We could’ve stayed strangers though. He could have just left me alone.
2025-12-18 14:45:06
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Mariaale :
Gotta download this to hear it every day
2025-12-18 02:03:56
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alidi4_ :
Damn this is real.
2025-12-17 20:16:48
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Vibes’on vibes :
Let them go!!! They packed their energy and left!!! If they were meant for you, they won’t have chosen to leave!!! Close the door and raise the BAR!!!
2025-12-26 00:36:49
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Carly D / Fitness & Mum Life :
Amen! He chose to leave so I wasn’t going to stop him.
2025-12-18 13:05:14
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Sammie.TRich :
This is all well and good...until you realize they left because of being disrespected and chose their personal peace over mind games...balance the discussion...
2025-12-17 17:30:34
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daniela bohm865 :
A year of therapy in 1 minute 👏
2025-12-17 14:25:18
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King 1111🫡 :
He’s absolutely correct!!!
2025-12-21 22:45:35
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Marissa | NM Realtor :
Absolutely!!! 💯 better things to come. 🙏✨
2025-12-17 18:49:58
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iamxvee :
Walk away if they cheated .
2025-12-18 22:28:24
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Rhiannon :
Yeah i respect who choose to walk away from me or walk to someone better. Hurts alot at the time but now i realise the one who for me won't be able to walk away from me. They will choose to keep holding me and keep moving forward together.
2025-12-17 20:25:56
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TheMidge :
Depends why one left. Cheating lies etc. there’s more to this than a simple someone who made a decision to leave. Boundaries
2025-12-17 19:55:22
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ButterflyLioness :
Unless you treated that person badly, threatened divorce when they are pregnant, told lies about them to others etc - there’s sometimes very valid reasons for walking out on someone, particularly if they cannot repair what they have done
2025-12-17 22:04:50
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Love_is_Love :
this man is so 👍 right
2026-01-12 18:33:56
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Steph :
So true x
2026-01-07 09:28:05
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Muratkand1903 :
but they had been our Soulmates but dont come to stay they come to Show usw so that we can Heal. Ellhamdullilah for everything
2026-01-09 17:29:36
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Stevehitz86 :
Needed this rn
2026-01-20 06:05:23
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self🩷love&new beginnings :
I gave myself the grace to feel every pain he put me through on new years ever. midnight hit and I closed the door. I didn't deserve what he did and he showed me his true colors. I let him go and that choice was so much easier than holding on.
2026-01-07 00:04:51
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