@srosepoetry: Thinking you have a safe partner when you don’t have a safe partner and continuing to go on discussing life as normal when he is in the honeymoon phase of a new relationship is an absolute humiliation ritual. I’m happy I can laugh now but after I learned about his affair, I thought about all these times and it hurt me so badly. #cheater #cheating #narcissist #affair #betrayaltrauma
It’s been 13 years and I’ll never laugh at it. I’ve always communicated with him with a hint of disgust because cheating is one of the lowest things you can do to the mother of your children.
2025-12-18 14:53:35
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Jenn :
Exactly, they dont see the affair partner for who they really are, theyre a fantasy. Its all surface level stuff. in my case the affair partner was not fit like me, she was heavier, she didnt have style. she was just really young, available, telling him everything he wanted to hear bc he was broken and insecure.
2026-02-10 17:57:06
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l4croihnopm :
I’m sorry you had to go through that. I also think of all the vulnerability I shared with him without knowing that the younger, successful and beautiful red head colleague had been privy to anything I said or did. I hope they were entertained
2025-12-18 22:29:21
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kritta.d :
This just makes me so so sick
2026-01-27 21:19:44
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Kcase123 :
same.....the humiliation is awful. if I had known there are things I never would've shared with him.
2025-12-18 21:01:10
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Tri | transformation coach :
It’s been a year and a half and out of all the emotions humiliation is still the one I am really struggling with. I am so sorry this happened to you.
2025-12-21 14:48:11
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Lisa Ondgren :
You just described my whole entire marriage. 😞
2026-01-01 20:27:11
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EAJmom :
Exactly why I didn’t share with anyone….
2025-12-18 20:57:53
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Tarzan :
where did you here the word humiliation?
2025-12-19 09:30:19
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Amanda and Baby Santi💙 :
I know that feeling all too well💔 I’m sorry you had to go through that
2026-02-06 02:46:45
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allexus_boyd :
Sammmmmmeere
2025-12-19 18:37:12
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Meli Girl :
You probably had constipation BECAUSE you were being cheated on. I had constant UTI’s for months that wouldn’t go away. Now I realize it was my body speaking to me that my husband wasn’t safe.
2025-12-19 03:58:41
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Amber 🐿 :
we live in MY hometown, all the people I grew up with, family and friends, everyone knew except me and nobody told me. I found out years later 🤡🤡
2025-12-18 15:51:54
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Witchesbrew :
It’s not fair and we simply cannot compete with a fantasy
2025-12-18 14:54:44
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Aletse :
I remember finding out and feeling as if my face was sliding off. In the back of my mind I even wondered if I was having a stroke, because it felt as if I'd lost control of my body. If I was told I died briefly and my spirit was leaving me, I would have 💯 believed it, because it felt like a literal death blow. Cheating is cruel.
2025-12-18 19:28:25
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Vanmar :
His AP was totally bottom of the barrel in appearance and personality but I became very ill while he was doing this. I became anemic after an infection and it affected my central nervous system. They even sent me for an MRI at the time because they thought it was possibly MS. Thankfully no MS but it took me a year to recover, just in time to find out what he had been doing all along. I’m sure he shared everything that was happening to me with her. It angers me to know my private life and struggles were being shared.
2025-12-18 15:51:42
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HoneylovesMichigan :
When we got married his AF was a month old. ....I love that for them. He posted a TT a while back asking "when will the demons stop" 😂😂😂😂.
2025-12-18 15:57:25
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Gemni Boutique :
Do we have the same life… the constipation and then seeing how beautiful she was 🫨
2025-12-18 16:14:01
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Jen :
he was your husband, you should have been able to share those things with him. don't feel bad because of something he did.
2025-12-19 11:02:19
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xoxoravyn :
We as women go through so much and men will never understand.
2025-12-19 05:24:43
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aro_nica :
I was told it lasted for a month and a half, and they went physical. I don’t know how much I believe it, but we’re going to therapy at this time.
2026-01-02 14:07:31
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Chrisje Writings :
🙏❤
2025-12-25 02:51:35
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candi 🌈 🇺🇸🏳️🌈 :
😞
2025-12-20 12:58:04
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user8830369793021 :
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I found several texts and Facebook messengers talking about my face, body and deeply personal issues. I’m not mourning him- but to have your naked body discussed by your husband to the sleazy women is humiliating. And the audacity - they were not 10s
2026-02-04 00:50:12
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