@allisonnspam3: My boyfriend is a kind soul. He does the best he can to try treat me right but I’m just not satisfied. The thing is, there’s PLENTY wrong with him. He always lies to other people about me to make me seem bad and evil in the relationship as if i treat him like garbage, he lies TO MY FACE about serious topics, he doesn’t let me hangout with my friends; even when 2 were moving schools he got mad anytime he saw me with one of my friends that weren’t moving, he doesn’t trust me, he gets EXTREMELY jealous when I have a simple conversation with another boy, and he’s very insecure of what boys I talk to. He told me to stop talking to my very close guy friend who was there with me through everything because he was scared I was going to leave him for my friend because we “call and text all the time”. That’s what friends do, and I would love to call my bf but he’s never on his phone!! How is that my fault? We call occasionally and it’s when we’re both bored and have nothing else to do. He told his friends about me apparently liking my guy friend and his twin and one of his other friends kept calling me a cheater. And about the lying to other people, he was venting to my sister about how on the last day of school we didn’t talk at all. I spent all of recess with that man. He’s always lying and it grosses me out but everytime I confront him about it he panicks and guilt trips me into forgiving him. 🥀 It normally goes something like “I’m sorry I just can’t stop overthinking it must be so annoying to have a bf like me ily”. I don’t think that’s normal. Not to mention, his breath smells insanely weird. But the thing is, we’re both 14 and I’ve never told my dad about any of my relationships before, but I told him about this one. It’s going to be so awkward telling my dad we broke up and it’s going to prove his point right that “You don’t NEED a boyfriend they just cause trouble”. We’ve been dating for 4 months and he’s told his whole extended family tree. I still like him but I feel like it’s shifted to more as a friend. The reason I don’t want to break up is because if I do then he’s going to cry like CRAZY, everytime we have a little spat he bawls his eyes out, and second of all he’s going to paint me out to be the villain to all of his friends. This happened to my friend once and she nearly lost her life because of it. The things they say hurt more than anything, it’s just ruthless bullying. Thirdly, I don’t want to ruin our friendship and I also lose my other friendships (the ones with his friends that i’ve became very close with) I feel like it’s not fair if I don’t tell him but I’m really scared to break up with him, and ik it’s not right but I’m kinda starting to like someone else. 🫩 Please let me know what I should do 🙏 (It’s the 2 month break from school so should I just wait until we go back and see if things change or break up now??) I feel like a terrible girlfriend posting this but idk what to do anymore I’ve tried everything #fyp #boyfriend #advice #help #Relationship

Britta :

“My boyfriend is a kind soul” then proceeds to describe the devil

𝒎𝒂𝒚𝒂 🌅 :

searching for this "kind soul you speak of

Meap :

"My boyfriend is a kind soul"

alyssa b ✨ :

Baby, what you’re feeling is right. This is not love or a kind soul, it’s manipulation. Don’t fall for it ❤️

reirei🫶 :

"what do I do"

メ『F O R S H A D O W』メ :

just break up with him,cuz I aint reading allat

⋆˚࿔ swirly4nilla ⋆˚࿔ :

Maybe the kind soul was the friends we made along the way

rickqrs_ :

are we sure about the kind soul part

boiled._egg :

He’s a kind soul

ambix 🍉 :

Sweet girl, I had a similar situation at 14! I’m 22 now and can promise you, hand on heart, you will be so glad you left him and find so so much better. Don’t worry about what your dad says, let it go through one ear out the other for now. Just do what’s best for you, and right now, you should leave! You don’t deserve to be treated by your boyfriend that way, beautiful.

𝓐𝓿𝓽𝓾𝓶𝓷 :

Me tryna find the "kind soul" in ts:

Kuni. ♡ :

Is the kind soul here with us in the room?

⋆｡‧˚ʚ𝑯ɞ˚‧｡⋆ :

is the "kind soul" in the room w us?

kenya 🧸🫧 :

“he lies-“ wrap it up immediately

Invispe :

Nobody’s giving actual good advice😭 what I would do is tell him upfront, find a time where it’s only the two of you, face too face and explain why it’s been hard to love him and why you can’t continue with this relationship if he won’t accept you should just leave him and if he tell’s everybody your the villain all you can do is try too ignore it for a while, if you have good friends they should support you and listen too YOU instead of listening to rumors and you can wait to tell your dad that you broke up, also find a good moment and explain the difficulties in the relationship, there are plenty of boys better than this (see what I did there) I wish you good luckkk :)

lali :

“there’s plenty wrong with him” wrap it up

°☆•°🦇°•☆° :

“My boyfriend is a kind soul” right..

️•_• :

Girl LEAVE HIM

Maduda_15 :

my dear if you needed more than 2 lines to list what's wrong with him something isn't right, find someone who loves you

Teagan :

Run? Fast? Just read back what you wrote that should be enough 😭

Chelsey (from Fairy Bones) :

sophie :

“he does the best he can to treat me right” then describes how he treats you horrribly😭

tua mamma :

“we’re both 14” “we’ve been dating for 4 months”

saharra :

kind soul & “he always lies” in the same sentence

Bree🫶🏼 :

“He doesn’t let me hang out with friends” yea wrap it up 😭