It’s very painful honestly especially when you thought they were the person
2025-12-19 04:46:02
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Hot Johnny :
Imagination can kill a relationship because of expectations that are just imagined.
2025-12-19 07:03:07
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Kimlamorena :
It took me so long to admit we weren’t aligned. The universe kept showing me and I ignored. Until it almost cost me everything. I romanticised the possibility and blind to the reality of it all. I am mourning the version of my future self with them. Now!…I’m living in the now and pouring into myself 💕
2025-12-19 13:48:20
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Eric :
Nailed it. Once I realized it wasn't my fault that helped a lot.
2025-12-18 23:52:52
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·˚ ༘ christabelle⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ :
was i just not enough? how could he give up so easily :(
2025-12-19 16:56:48
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jet.black1727 :
It’s not about you when someone else doesn’t have the capacity. They don’t have the emotional maturity or comprehension. I hope she reads this. I envisioned, my bad. Thank you 🙏🏻 for helping me realize this.
2025-12-19 05:02:25
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👺𝙑𝙀𝙍𝙏⍨ :
How do I get over ts
2025-12-19 21:51:04
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LegacyC10🌞🩵🖤💠 :
was pouring into her becuase of who she was during the honeymoon stage but after those first 3 months the avoidant showed up..
2025-12-19 05:31:34
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Briesch :
My nervous system is still scanning. Still trying to connect. Even though I know I am loveable and so ok with myself.
2025-12-19 07:22:06
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louscarpaci :
The avoidant people yes it’s painful
2025-12-20 13:11:48
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𝖘𝖔𝖑 :
pure disappointment esp when you saw the potential because of who they were in the beginning but it was all deceiving that wasn’t really them
2025-12-19 20:36:47
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missy ♡ :
bittersweet feeling
2025-12-20 00:48:23
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Spiritualsavage888 :
Oooooff this is the oneeeee
2025-12-19 01:23:35
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โสภา.ตวงทอง :
Psychology student here, i've seen many cases where this leads to depression. It’s very important to mention that depression is much more complex than “thinking negatively” and telling that to people with clinical depression might be harmful. It’s not only about negative thinking and has complex parts like genetics and biological factors. Just telling people to “think positively” isn’t always the solution. You have to heal the right way. I will tell you something about myself. I thought I was the only one.... I loved him so much but every time he would leave me it would spin me into an episode and I felt like I was going crazy and if I look back I literally was crazy I would cry and cry and hurt myself and use other men because I was so broken and completely impulsive and just do wild things. I don’t miss it. But I do miss him, still… Yet i made vow that i will change myself because its the right thing to do even if its not easiest one. But the greatest decisions requires strongest will, right? I promised to become a better version of myself. im willing to wait for my future lover, so that when he finally meets me, he meets the best version of who i can be — someone who can give him and myself, everything we deserve. Im strongly suggesting to everyone to pick up a book called “Healing Isn’t Pretty” by Mira Hartson asap, i LOVEEEEE this bookkk it def saved me !!
2025-12-20 15:33:34
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✰keilani1rl✰ :
Especially when they go out of their way to show you they don’t wanna give you that love 🥹🥹
2025-12-19 16:06:15
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Valerie Cirino :
I always ask myself what did I really do that was so bad 🥺
2025-12-21 00:20:18
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Ariana :
One of my hardest but transformative lessons this year
2025-12-20 05:12:54
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Tilda❤️🌹 :
This is sooooo true 💯💯💯💯
2026-04-11 20:18:26
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Ambertreee :
It’s sooooooo hard.
2025-12-20 00:51:34
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faith:) :
thank you so much for sharing your insight on this!! i needed to hear this
2025-12-23 18:06:18
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Claire Saint-Marc :
It’s really not easy
2025-12-19 23:17:28
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merchant :
I actually made my favorite upcoming release of 2026 about this
2025-12-19 23:53:24
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George Strong :
very very true
2025-12-20 01:11:30
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Leanna :
Most challenging !!!!
2026-01-28 02:33:46
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