Abefroman
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louisha | master of none :
Radical acceptance!
2025-12-20 02:16:40
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Justagirl :
Yes you can’t ruminate too long, you have to ground ❤️🩹
2025-12-19 11:19:53
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MillennialDreamer :
My heart was shattered into a million pieces 4 months ago, and I’m sick of being depressed about it. I gave myself a deadline of Dec. 31 to get it all out my system. I don’t want to go into the new year carrying this inside me.
2025-12-19 00:32:56
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Level Up Mentors :
I’d always say that growth is realizing that you can miss someone and still choose not reach out to them ✨ It’s moving on.
2025-12-19 15:14:06
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nastratton :
It’s not you against the world, it’s you against yourself!
2025-12-19 03:24:54
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capricuntofcats :
People don’t like knowing they have a choice.
2025-12-21 05:15:07
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via :
it’s so hard because the pain is the last thing i have of the relationship, and choosing to move on means it’s really truly over
2025-12-19 15:28:50
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Chloe :
exactly. you are the one narrating life
2025-12-19 11:56:51
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j :
It’s new you vs the old you and one of you has to die.
2025-12-19 23:56:10
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og.dirty.dan :
Def can't rush the process. But sometimes people like to dwell on things for too long 100%
2025-12-19 13:51:03
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lultoodat :
It’s like ok come back to reality
2025-12-20 07:47:42
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TRASHley🍒✨🦢 :
When people get on here and say they’re still stuck on an ex after TEN YEARS….something isn’t right
2025-12-21 20:29:43
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Sparks_29 :
Does anyone just get bored? Like, after years of rumination and conversations don’t you just reach a point of “I’m literally bored of thinking about this situation now” so you move on for variety and stimulation even though it’s still in your heart in some way. But once you’ve done that. You don’t look back.
2025-12-20 00:52:59
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Domi B Diaries :
Yes. You have to finally get up and say I can’t keep crying over this because they do not care. No matter how much you want them to, they only care about how they feel. This comes from a person who cried out everyday for 2weeks
2025-12-21 15:37:52
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kushmint 🦦 :
wow the way the bots are in the comments repeatedly talking about this random book 😭
2025-12-19 13:23:44
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ambreielj :
So much easier said that done 😩
2025-12-19 14:10:58
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lily🐀 :
And once you reach that stage it’s like a flip switches. You’ll look back and realize that was truly the moment your real healing/moving on started
2025-12-20 07:22:55
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colie >ᵥ_ᵥ< :
see i’ve BEEEEN saying this bc like sometimes people wonder why 9 months later they’re still not over it and im like well yeah bc you keep going back/giving it all your energy?
2025-12-19 16:37:41
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user2554147609525 :
yes this is an important lesson i’ve had to learn, sometimes u aren’t going to get apology u think u deserve it’s better to move on and find peace rather than sit in bad emotions for ppl
2025-12-19 13:51:36
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HazeLies :
ppl gotta realize they can cry and still move forward. you don’t gotta be stagnant to heal and the farther you walk away you don’t even realize it’ll be so far behind you atp
2025-12-20 05:20:56
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Ali :
Psychology backs u up, you can’t control what intrusive thoughts pop in your head but you can control telling yourself, “that doesn’t serve me anymore” instead of ruminating on it. Doing this with every thought will slowly teach your brain that these thoughts no longer serve you and with time your brain will start to prune the neural pathways keeping this alive in ur mind
2025-12-22 06:13:27
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Jess :
SO REAL - one random Tuesday 4 months later… I’m done with this. And I really was
2025-12-20 15:36:16
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Christina 🌺 :
It only happened last month 😭 BUT I would like to enter 2026 with new energy so will focus that energy on myself instead
2025-12-19 04:17:17
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Nick :
It gets easier as time goes on with experience and learning detachment. Also you start to realize (or at least id hope a lot of you do) that holding onto stuff that reminds you of them makes the process so much longer, just throw it all away and delete most if not all of the stuff that reminds you of them
2025-12-19 07:36:43
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