@theholisticpsychologist: It’s not your job to read people’s minds…

Dr. Nicole LePera
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fckassbanana
fckassbanana :
thats the worst thing you can do 💀 do not say it like that
2025-12-21 20:39:48
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kelseyliveshere
kelsliveshere :
Most of the time I’m not explaining what wrong because the person asking is the problem. Like the dishes being in the sink and then adding more than asking why I’m mad. Like open your eyes you adult baby. wtf read the room.
2025-12-22 06:59:21
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xcylorx
XCylorX :
I’m emotionally exhausted. I’m not training adult babies. I’m leaving bye.
2025-12-20 04:56:27
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dragonflybaby11
Dragonflybaby11 :
How to deal with an emotionally immature partner: leave
2025-12-25 18:11:14
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bek_wild23
bek_wild23 :
Yah I’m not saying all that extra stuff. I’m gonna just move on with my day/life.. I’m tired of teaching adults how to talk. I’m not a therapist
2025-12-20 03:11:05
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toryrose92
toryrose987 :
what about when this is the other way around? im upset, my partner knows it. I try to hide it because every time I express why, im now the problem. what do I do about that?
2025-12-24 06:14:05
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bigberthaxjesus
Bertha Lou Anderson :
Or simply break up with them
2025-12-21 15:19:14
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katherinethegreat33
Sharp Cheddar 👾 :
Or completely ignore them
2025-12-20 17:59:02
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thatsanofrommedawgg
ThatsANoFromMeDawg :
What if you’re not sharing, not bc you want them to “read your mind,” but bc you know there’s no point in sharing feelings bc it always leads to an argument and minimizing.
2026-02-07 20:26:19
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thereisareason123
There is a reason :
I do not have patience for this silliness
2025-12-20 02:56:31
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summer43212
Grif4321 :
How do you do that when your partner gets very mad and angry when you tell them what’s wrong
2025-12-26 16:36:46
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yelenabk
Yelena :
I feel like if you’re emotionally mature this type of relationship won’t last long, if it even happens in the first place.
2025-12-20 15:15:52
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coffee_and_crafts
coffee_and_crafts :
I’m the “I’m fine” one bc of my trauma history, but I’m working on it! But having EI parents growing up, this is accurate!
2025-12-20 01:03:37
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sammisam123
Sammi Sam I am :
It is so uncomfortable feeling that energy all day.
2025-12-20 20:25:28
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cometisavolcryn
Sebastián :
what a coincidence, I'm just about to be fired because my boss acts like this
2026-01-04 08:54:59
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ladystormhealing
Lady Storm Healing :
If only my parents would of taught me this, or high school or somebody. Oh well better late than never. Thank you for sharing 💐
2025-12-19 23:58:20
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atomicrocks
atomic rocks :
I stayed with him for so long because I thought I could tolerate his immature behavior "because I loved him" yet I feel like I instantly moved on the moment it was finally over
2025-12-20 00:49:15
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ayeee.lear
ayeee.lear :
Option #2, leave that man bc absolutely not
2025-12-25 21:30:11
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lukk983
lukk983 :
Is that immature or just trauma
2025-12-24 04:23:53
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bluesky9999900
Romi :
too soft just say...okay and live your life
2025-12-20 08:56:28
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officialstrawberryvenom
Kayleigh :
nah if they tell me theyre fine i say 'ok' and smile in an enthusiastic way then have the best day ever around them. if something is wrong and they say it isnt, thats a lie IMO so i aint tiptoeing arounf their feelings. i dont empathise with liars
2025-12-20 23:51:47
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mommologist
mommologist :
What if they get insanely angry if you ask if something is wrong? So you can’t even ask and then you start making stuff up in your head
2026-01-01 22:23:29
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marylyn1960
MaryLyn1960 :
When you tell someone what’s wrong then they yell what do you do
2025-12-26 14:57:43
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helenaanne
Helena 🤍 :
I had these tendencies and it’s because every time I would express what’s wrong my parents would just berate and yell at me. So I quickly learned it’s unsafe to express any sort of feelings I had which inconvenience them. It’s very difficult to unlearn but doable
2025-12-23 18:46:13
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nuggetnprincess
lexi :
honestly "is something wrong?" or "what's wrong?" just does not feel opening as a conversation piece.
2025-12-22 09:40:20
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