@sabrina.zohar: If you miss the person who treated you poorly, dismissed your needs, or made you feel crazy for asking for the bare minimum, you don’t miss them. You miss the hope. You miss believing that if you just explained yourself differently, waited longer, or asked more gently, they’d finally show up. But someone who consistently made you feel like too much for wanting effort wasn’t confused. They were showing you exactly what they were capable of. Missing them doesn’t mean the connection was deep. It means you stayed attached to the potential instead of the reality. Understanding why you stayed matters. Using that understanding to justify going back is how the cycle continues. Pod has more or course ( 🔗 in bio) #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #loseyourself #HealingJourney #emotionalintelligence