Framing confidence as the sparkle you feel was helpful. Thanks. I’m just starting my journey of styling myself since my body has changed drastically this past year and I’m needing to learn how to dress it anew.
2025-12-21 02:41:50
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L Train869 :
perfect sense. I have worked so hard (and still working) on removing the idea of flattering aka looking smaller/skinnier from my process of dressing. It's been so freeing and has truly let my creativity shine.
2025-12-21 15:07:32
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Megan Banker :
Yes this makes sense and I love it. What I would love to see is what is something you could change or add to that outfit that WOULD give you all 3
2025-12-21 04:06:53
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Oli :
The emotional piece might have just broken my brain (in a good way)
2025-12-21 21:34:42
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SweetLucidity17 :
yoooo... I am in LOVE with those boots ....where , where do I get those ?!?!
2026-01-10 20:49:44
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hnielson21 :
I think I get it. What would you change about this outfit to make it work for you?
2025-12-21 21:01:17
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jenleija :
yes. the perfect outfit is comfortable to wear, has "the glow," and feels like a reflection of the self you are/want to be that day. It's almost a costume to be myself. love this take
2025-12-31 04:05:39
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bookb*tch_15 :
This makes so much sense! I love all your content! I am personally trying to de-center the idea of flattering. This helps so much! 🥰
2025-12-21 03:10:17
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LP :
This is a great explanation 👏
2026-01-17 18:34:31
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Chimera Calms :
YES 👏
2026-02-15 02:10:49
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TroubleLalala :
I absolutely get that need for the “sparkle”. I have the same. It needs to be just a touch “obscure”, “funky”, “weird” but also classic and casual to make me feel good about it.
2025-12-22 02:09:26
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Elizabeth Miller :
such a smart way to think about it and a new twist I hadn't considered before
2026-01-26 17:30:08
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clarebear284 :
Yup. Sometimes it looks the way I think it should, but just doesn’t vibe for me
2025-12-22 05:33:03
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VibesWithVictoria123 :
Great reframe, thanks for sharing it!
2026-01-20 21:08:10
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mysandracondadont :
I LOVE this outfit
2025-12-21 07:55:31
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Megan McGowan :
I love your jeans! Where did you get them?
2025-12-21 03:27:02
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Little_my :
Love this ❤️❤️❤️
2025-12-22 00:34:19
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Casey | WEAR JOY PROJECT :
Yes!!!!!
2026-03-05 21:49:27
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Danielle :
where is that jacket from? cause I think it's MY personal style!
2025-12-21 21:38:15
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Tara Milliken :
I’m so sorry if you’ve answered this before, but can you share where these jeans are from/what style they are? Because I LOVE them.
2026-01-18 14:47:51
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_asdfghjkl_1234567 :
Totally makes sense
2025-12-21 16:06:31
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Kailiia 🇨🇦 :
I adore your Shoebaru boots!
2025-12-21 18:12:43
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K :
Love your content!
2026-01-04 04:07:27
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Casey Bingham :
Thanks for this far
2026-01-06 17:40:50
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Jazz :
The boots are 🔥🔥🔥
2025-12-23 05:46:12
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