Want a man that owns a law firm but think that man is gonna settle for the Forever 21 assistant manager 😭😭😭
2025-12-22 16:55:28
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Knowyournormals :
We have to stop equating white collar with money. Most white collar jobs arent making money like that.
2025-12-22 13:01:06
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Ozymandeas :
Move to DC. The city is crawling with lawyers.
2025-12-22 19:53:06
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Naruto :
your window to get them is before they become white collar not after
2025-12-22 16:40:14
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Aporia Works :
Proximity + signaling. A lot of white-collar dudes (which I’m a part of) won’t approach unless the interest is obvious—risk/reputation calculus. Military culture (which I was a part of) tends to be more direct, so you see more approaches. 👀
2025-12-21 20:58:16
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Truth_in_the_universe :
watching way too many Tyler Perry movies...Number two, those professionals are dating professionals...
2025-12-23 00:03:41
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Woodrowar :
There are a lot of black dudes in the military cause it’s low barrier for entry
2025-12-22 15:05:12
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Mihara :
White collar black men are with white women 😂😂
2026-01-31 21:44:27
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BoldyBeautiful2020 :
Well said. Most doctors marry other doctors these days
2025-12-22 14:09:00
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MadBadger :
Generally we date and marry in the circles we travel regardless of racial identity. Want to date a med student, be a med student.
2025-12-24 06:07:49
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User4678990 :
I’m a physician. It’s all about proximity, social class, background, and education. Every high earning Black professional that I know (includes doctors, lawyers, architects, engineers, finance people) met their spouse either through grad school, mutual friends, church, or professional organizations.
2025-12-23 18:35:55
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madammarauder :
most wealthy men date or marry women who are in their proximity. it’s why most doctors are married by the time they have graduated med school. they met their wives in college or in med school. this is the case of most wealthy women as well. majority of the time they are married to men of similar statue. social media has people who have unrealistic goals for the people they want when they aren’t even what those people are looking for.
2025-12-25 14:04:56
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Lisa Ivy :
Let’s understand how to get into those circles. People clown college, but that is direct access to meeting future professionals at the undergrad and grad levels. From classmates, to alum, to networking nights, fundraisers and homecoming. Next would be the professional associations. But guess what, you have to be an industry professional to even qualify for membership. Well educated ppl also want to be around other well educated ppl.
2025-12-22 20:06:08
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robrenallphd :
Educated men want educated women
2025-12-28 19:08:28
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Jk4 :
military can be professional class just do officers
2025-12-22 19:53:20
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Dreana Marie :
Also what is her profession? Is she around those types if professionals?
2026-01-13 01:01:24
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Kalil Todman :
Proximity and skill-based issue as well
2025-12-23 01:20:56
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Poetic Justice :
heavy on the proximity part. other than in college, you have to be in certain circles to rub elbows with Drs and Lawyers and have access to actually date one.
2025-12-23 14:25:28
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Magic Mike 🇯🇲 :
wants the rarest kind of man in the United States, that she also finds attractive to then also approach her. lol
2025-12-23 16:18:14
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user8695840909818 :
This is the same reason relationships between WM and BW is the fastest growing demographic (by percentage). More and more BW are highly educated professionals. They are proximate with similarly educated WM.
2025-12-22 15:00:53
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DMIL :
How old do you want these men to be?
2025-12-22 12:04:25
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Vash :
Best place for a black single person with "grand" expectations in life is to move to a major city(Houston,DC,ATL,Charlotte,Manhattan). A SIGNIFICANTLY high amount of black professionals and entrepreneurs in those cities, scammers as well(Houston/ATL). As a man, DC, Charlotte, and Houston in that order(for me) because I prefer the white collar women over the business owners.
2025-12-22 20:17:32
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Kenney P. :
Those guy most of the time are gunna date someone in the same field as them or equal to them financially. They have a lot to lose they ain’t dating nobody that’s not in the same tax bracket
2025-12-22 12:24:19
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