@_olivialesurfwray: Are you currently in a no contact period and it seems like your avoidant ex doesn’t care at all? While you’re suffering in heartbreak As a relationship coach and therapist I’ve broken down the emotional stages we usually see with an avoidant ex compared to yourself during the no contact period & if you’re looking for deeper dives join me in the relationship lounge - link is on my website in my bio 🫶🏼 Olivia Lesurf Wray 🌿 #nocontact #dismissiveavoidant #avoidant #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheory
I'd do anything to have my avoidant ex back. Literally anything.
2025-12-24 09:06:46
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Andy O' :
It’s been a month and a half and I’m still in the shock phase. 😔 Going through the biggest heartbreak of my life
2025-12-23 12:25:24
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lkkb215 :
how long do all of these stages take?
2025-12-23 12:26:05
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Shannon Carroll💕 :
I've just gone through my 11th week of no contact after my partner of 15 years broke up with me as he was no longer in love with me 💔. He's since deleted my number so I know for sure that he won't be getting back in contact with me which a tough pill to swallow 😢
2026-01-31 00:25:46
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Millionaire Ashley 🇨🇦 :
does any of this happen if he starts dating the other girl?
2026-02-19 01:33:21
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hkembrey :
Why is she liking my TikTok reposts after a week of no contact? I chased and begged and pushed her away to it being over but now this?? It is so confusing
2025-12-23 12:02:51
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derick_kels :
Are there Videos which tells avoidants to reconnect with their ex and work on the Problems they both have? Haven't seen any
2026-01-05 15:08:40
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Elsa Niemeijer :
ouff thank you so much for this, broke up with him two days ago because he didn’t fulfil my needs it hurts but i can get so much better, it’s somewhere out there. going no contact as well i think it will help even if i miss him
2025-12-29 09:51:26
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freebirddtx :
What if you broke it off with the avoidant, not the other way around- I broke it off but it still hurt me so much.
2025-12-23 20:58:40
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ella🍒 :
Thank you thank you thank you
2026-02-08 06:55:17
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J A D E 🦋 :
My avoidant left me and my 2 children but had already started seeing someone else before he left…we have been together 16 years but married only a year. It’s heartbreaking. He’s still seeing this other person too. Will he ever realise what he’s done if there was another women lined up?
2025-12-28 01:13:03
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rozy ❤️ :
I kept reaching out for two good months 😭😭😭😭 he finally told me if I had given him at least a month space he would have come back
2025-12-30 13:21:15
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user8796244856435 :
Thank you, you're making it make sense. I'm done no matter what.
2026-01-13 11:49:18
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Hannah C :
Does this is mean the same when they’ve hidden that they’ve been in a 6 year relationship and had a baby with that person in the same time we was together of 2 years?
2026-02-01 10:11:59
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Elin :
I am in my heart break now, but I need to think about my futher at the same time because of him
2026-02-01 20:53:48
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rina :
how does this change if they immediately jumped into a new relationship (with the new friend they cheated with?)
2025-12-27 18:03:54
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Katie :
I'm in the silence stage.🥺
2026-01-02 13:23:57
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Alison In Chains :
Stupendous video!
2025-12-22 13:11:29
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andyclemski :
But how long do these stages take
2026-02-19 18:18:37
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R' :
No contact:-best rule ever 💪
2026-01-21 12:29:32
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Username4548290 :
And when is there another one? Now not time after the end of the relationship but when you were in the relationship?
2026-02-14 12:21:46
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Marta13 :
How does this work when you are 8 months pregnant?
2026-02-08 10:26:43
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Laura :
Messaged you privately ❤️
2026-01-27 13:42:48
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Nash Al :
Day 8 🥰
2026-01-28 20:10:03
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Martina🌸 :
Thank you❤️
2025-12-23 07:12:00
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