@amia_lynn: Courage is cute… but having your own money changes everything and gives you options. No shame, just some sisterly advice. ❤️ #financialindependence #divorcetok #startingover #singlemomlife #healingera
Greatest thing that man taught me was how to live without him.
2025-12-22 22:54:43
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Shy :
When I left I had 30K saved and I paid my bills up 7 months. 👋🏾 oh I didn’t leave my house he had to go.
2025-12-24 15:52:34
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Kat Ray :
Used my own money to leave then divorced him and took all his too🔆
2026-01-04 03:26:58
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TheLifeOfShauni :
STG!! My Parents taught me this! That’s why no matter how frustrated I get, I still get up & go to work. 🖤
2025-12-22 16:41:00
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xoxo :
My friends always told dang you will leave a relationship fast Af.. yea cause I have my own career/money/credit. Having resources = freedom at any point in time.
2025-12-22 21:42:37
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QueenBELLE :
That’s why they hate when you have your own motion. They know you can leave AT ANY TIME.
2026-01-03 13:25:11
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yesitsme_shika :
When I left my ex-husband, I was 100% financially stable on my own and that allowed me to leave when I was ready. He came home. All my stuff was gone. I took my half out of our joint savings and I left him his half. Got my own apartment and started living my life.
2025-12-23 17:29:53
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Sheril G :
Girl I left with no money!
2026-01-24 13:14:35
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Kiesh :
I can’t believe women are still putting their lives in the hands of a man in 2025.
2025-12-23 10:50:44
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222PlayYaMammy :
We're CONSTANTLY telling women but they wanna FEEL superior until it's THEM
2025-12-24 12:15:48
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TheMonthAfterJuneIsJUULLLLYYYY :
I have left in both scenarios. I left my first DV relationship with 4 kids and $6 in my pocket. It was so hard. Second, I was the breadwinner and yes, it is easier when you are financially secure/independent.
2026-01-03 20:59:41
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coolcat042028 :
The problem is they never think it will be them.
2026-01-03 13:55:25
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Ebonie | Insurance + Lifestyle :
My mama and grandma always taught me to have my own, no matter how much of a breadwinner he is. 🥰
2025-12-23 12:59:59
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Zara :
The rise in SAHM was all a ploy for the rise in conservatism. Same thing with “soft life” these are all ways to keep women trapped. Men switch up so fast it’s crazy
2025-12-23 11:57:17
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AneekaNoniRose :
I remember my kids dad said “you don’t have anywhere else to go…” I screamed. Literally.. like WHO don’t? Sir we SPLIT BILLS!??? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I have 30 more places to go than you do, including getting MY OWN.. he was shook.. 😂😂😂😂😂
2026-01-03 15:24:05
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ABG :
this what them young girls needs to be seeing on THIS APP
2026-01-22 22:58:13
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jazzthemotivator :
You ain’t told no lies. I nee to always have my own.
2025-12-22 13:45:37
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CrystalChristine :
I truly believe that, word of the wise. Have your own sh** no matter what.
2026-01-31 15:19:31
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Trig :
See listen! I left cause I was the only financially stable one. My finances have never been better!
2025-12-23 02:16:59
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BlackAshley :
I left my ex husband with $30k, had an apartment ready to go and already started purchasing new things for my home.
2026-01-17 13:22:17
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BreezeMomCo. :
Thank you for speaking up about this. Women need to know 💕
2025-12-23 13:25:02
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Nada :
This is extremely important for women to understand. You having your own is a NEED and a MUST! Meaning being able to afford your own living without the help of anyone. Often times women get comfortable in relationships/marriages. Please make sure you are always in a good financial situation. Always always make sure YOU are good 💕 Life can happen quick and situations happen.
2026-01-22 14:58:15
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Brittney Raynae :
Baby you hit that one on the head
2025-12-22 14:38:55
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Venus Lyric :
I never intended to be financially dependent but that’s where I was but I bossed up and left I’m struggling but I know I made the best decision and now I’m tired of struggling so it’s time to pivot
2025-12-25 18:37:02
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Meachie Baughns :
And that’s why I’m good with 50/50…. You just never know!!
2025-12-22 16:56:15
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