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GoldStarFish8 :
Why are there so many emotionally immature, entitled men??
2025-12-23 13:48:51
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Ursula :
A lot of avoidants will drag people with pure intentions into situationships only to leave once they got what they wanted. I think they portray themselves strategically as SO interested in you, only they get the ick once something or someone else more "promising" or according to them more exciting appears on the horizon. They will switch off towards you- LITERALLY GO ICE COLD, as if you are harassing them, a nuisance, bother, as if you never existed. You will get ignored, blocked like an enemy. THIS is why people spiral- they will try and figure out what went wrong. You are in complete shock and disbelief at their coldness. They will go out of their way to be extremely affectionate towards someone they met yesterday just to prove to you that you mean nothing to them. It honestly appears as if they are out to prove a point of how much you are despised. Once you realize that you have often met people like this, it's easier to "place" them. They could be family- always very busy with something, never available or friends you have known. They often friendship hop- constantly having the new group of cool kids that they hang out with. Next year they will be tired if them and they will find the next group of new cool people. I am constantly amazed at how, when you bring up their behavior- their lying, avoiding the people who love them, the constant unavailability, you are met with an offensive attitude as if YOU are there problem. They are ALWAYS annoyed when you call them out. We MUST realize that healthy people do relationships differently. They show accountability, are available and are consistent. They are CONSISTENTLY interested in you, year in and year out. You feel truelly loved and seen. When you have had many run ins with avoidants you will end up feeling that there must be something wrong with you- that is how they made you feel. Unfortunately, from talking to avoidants, guess what? That is EXACTLY how they see you- as the problem.😂😂😂😂 and they don't look back either. They are too busy with that new amusement.
2025-12-23 17:09:08
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Sheesh_Reese :
First sign of this.. leave. Your nervous system is about to be activated if you stay ✌🏼
2025-12-23 15:13:59
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greeneyedsoul.llc :
Forgive yourself for viewing someone’s lack of reciprocation as a challenge to convince them of your worth. Let their withdrawal be the information, not the challenge. 🔥
2025-12-23 03:39:57
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Mihai Pocol :
I’m so exhausted of this dynamic. I just want to meet someone who wants to choose me consistently as I want to choose them. When they are neglecting me or ghosting me I feel the same old wound I felt as a child.
2025-12-24 02:49:15
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cpt_gravity :
thank you. I'm not really a person who dates, and just got ghosted after 2 really great dates after a year of intermittent flirting + mutual attraction. we got deep and intimate and it really hurt when he disappeared.
2026-02-01 04:14:21
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dani :
This. This is the hardest skill to learn. Stopping the pursuer reflex takes time, practice, and patience with yourself.
2025-12-22 19:47:38
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Caitlin, Millennial Teacher ✨ :
"you outpaced their tolerance" MA'AM 🔥🔥🔥
2025-12-23 17:37:12
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KrisKat :
Is it their capacity, emotional immaturity or they don’t like us that much?!
2025-12-24 00:19:55
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Shanalee 🇯🇲🇳🇬🇬🇭 :
I’m tired of meeting emotionally unavailable inconsistent men
2025-12-24 18:04:12
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Amanda Lynn :
When someone withdraws, they are revealing thier limits. PeriodT. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
2025-12-23 20:41:15
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mindyabidnez :
take it for what it is, regulate your emotions, detach from romantic activation and have boundaries around intimacy 🤷
2026-02-09 01:35:59
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amindfulmesss :
recognize that you’re not compatible and walk away, you don’t need to see them do it twice.
2025-12-23 14:17:25
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Neicy Jayne :
This literally just happened to me! I was so confused. I gave him the space. I don’t chase and I have moved on. One of the hardest things I’ve done.
2025-12-23 21:45:36
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Indigoeyes :
Cell Phones has killed romance. Plain and simple. Men were never like this before 1994. I know I was there. Now we are justifying their actions
2025-12-24 14:53:16
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Karenscourt :
And they always come back when you walk away. Never fails.
2025-12-26 13:16:27
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tententakeoff :
Also, if you have been that person to withdraw after the initial connection, clock your own behavior and do some introspection. That is your work to do.
2025-12-23 17:50:51
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abled_broken :
Describes my situation with Danny and I…. He’s such a dick. What’s worse is I broke my celibacy and it broke me. It’s been a few months now, but I’m still not over it.
2025-12-24 15:58:07
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KrisKat :
Okay- so coming back to this. I recognized their limit/capacity and stopped giving beyond that. When I stayed steady, Guess what I received- MORE. Allow them to meet you. If they can’t, they’re eliminate themselves. Remain assured and focused on you- they don’t get our energy if they can’t even meet us. Let them lead.
2026-01-30 20:21:07
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Abbie Lucas :
I had my crash out and then I leveled up mentally, physically, and emotionally and I feel great now. While he is still in the same place I left him 😌
2025-12-23 14:43:16
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LezBCr0ft :
Gaddamn ok ok 😅🥰
2025-12-22 21:26:39
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Gretchen The Life Coach :
run don’t walk
2025-12-23 06:12:41
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Ava :
You have no idea how badly I needed to hear this
2025-12-23 16:41:25
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🧚♀️🫧RonelvdBergh🫧🧚♀️ :
Texted me non stop on Sunday, not a word from him on Monday, I canceled our 1st date on Tuesday. Zero tolerance for games
2025-12-23 21:32:29
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Desiree_Jayne :
So true. My mistake was i framed leaving as abandonment. Eventually i was able to wise up.
2025-12-23 05:33:18
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