People always hit you with the “you’re never really ready.” Yeah but I’d rather have done my due diligence to heal and grow as a person before caring for an impressionable human that didn’t have a choice in the matter
2025-12-23 19:04:03
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Angela J Gallardo :
This concept is so funny to me because we’re probably the first couple of generations to actually understand this. Think of all the generations of people before us who literally did not care!! All the way back to the beginning of man.
2025-12-23 16:14:07
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Mia :
Exactly why I had an abortion a year ago and I do not regret it 😌
2025-12-23 05:28:23
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Payton Dale :
This. I love my future daughter so much that I won’t have her.
2025-12-23 19:23:04
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Sarah :
Society makes me feel like I’m the crazy one for thinking deeply and intentionally about this decision almost every day 😭
2025-12-23 16:36:19
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Saf :
honestly being child free should BE the norm
2025-12-23 19:21:27
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keex the goblin :
I'm so glad I didn't have kids before my frontal lobe developed. Sure we grow w/ our kids but kids don't deserve our trauma responses & disregulation
2025-12-22 23:11:50
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seedypops :
Too many people want to have a baby like a child wants a puppy and that isn’t good.
2025-12-24 19:29:59
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Anna :
The amount of parents I know around me who just put movies on for the kids, don’t read to them, don’t do activities with them, and just make them iPad kids is crazy to me… like y’all are supposed to parent
2025-12-24 11:03:37
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MK shops :
My friend once said “your not just having a baby your having a person” … and that has always stuck with me!!
2025-12-24 22:42:29
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austincd1995 :
It's mind boggling how childless people are called selfish as if there isn't millions of neglected and abused kids and even adults with generational trauma.
2025-12-23 22:38:44
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Maddy :
If you aren’t ready for marriage, you sure as hell aren’t ready for kids.
2025-12-24 14:39:00
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Jacqui :
not all adults should be parents. people need to understand and be ok with that.
2025-12-23 21:17:43
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samantha.garcix :
I can barely fathom having A DOG!!!!!!!!!! Can you imagine a child?!
2025-12-24 06:20:29
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agenttwelve :
People should need a college degree in behavior and development, proof of income, criminal background checks and regular home inspections to have kids istg
2025-12-24 00:29:58
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ley :
this shouldn’t even be unpopular like pls stop treating whole humans as a life milestone checklist item
2026-01-13 20:47:49
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luisa.irl :
what's crazy is that it shouldn't be controversial or unpopular 😭💕
2025-12-23 22:44:13
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Olivia :
Thissss. So many people are too lax about having kids it drives me nuts. Same people that act like marriage is a bigger commitment than having a baby too! Marriage can be undone- having a child cannot.
2025-12-23 17:32:12
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CelineJo :
It is in fact that serious
2025-12-26 18:05:59
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꧁ཐི𝔦𝔡𝔢𝔷ཋྀ꧂ :
“You’re never really ready” “but if you wait you may not be able to later!” “Love is all they need” “I wasn’t ready but still had them” it’s crazy how they encourage ppl to just have kids and not actually THINK about it, and ensure they are the most prepared. Parenting is not perfect, but it’s wild to be persuading others to just have kids & have them asap bc “it’ll work out”. Encouraging this over better preparedness bc they didn’t have ppl to not shame them for waiting, & pressured by the expectations of having kids young.
2025-12-23 23:16:27
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Mackenzie | :
LITERALLY!!! This ain’t no cutesy fun game honey!!! Get a baby doll!!!! These babies are precious sweet innocent souls
2025-12-23 22:42:39
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ꜱʜᴀɴɴ :
And to add to the unpopular opinion: if you’re not in a place in life where you’re ready to sacrifice your career so that you can be more present in your child’s life, you might not be ready to have children 🫣
2025-12-27 16:46:46
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femengg :
I just don’t understand how it’s seen as so casual??!? like it’s a very serious thing
2025-12-24 10:27:00
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Maria Erika :
prayed so hard, took classes, RESEARCH SO MUCH STUFF, prepared everything my baby needed for the first year, now establishing a business for him, saving, keeping myself healthy, planning for his future. We wanted this baby.
2026-02-06 12:12:09
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