Unfortunately,Most of the men you want to date got married, had kids and moved out to the burbs. If you move to Long Island for example, you will have a ton of men for you.
2025-12-24 08:30:04
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thewiz209 :
NYC is one of the worst rated places to date in America
2025-12-23 08:18:20
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Alex from Brooklyn :
Maybe us 30s-40s single people in NY should organize a singles event then. It's becoming a thing on TikTok but it's usually for 25-35. I need to go somewhere where people know what AOL chatrooms were 😂
2025-12-24 14:09:34
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gangofnyc :
Where
2025-12-26 15:27:34
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Andrea :
algorithm is working. single and 40 and in the same boat
2025-12-23 02:04:37
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Tom T :
Worst city in the world to be single
2025-12-25 14:31:11
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Jaitlyn :
I just turned 40, live in NYC, was basically single for 5 years and then met my now husband on bumble when I was 37. My friend who also met her husband on bumble gave me her system lol. 1. Join on a Sunday bc most people will be active after not meeting people on a weekend 2. Buy a week a premium 3. Swipe like it’s a job for 2 days not to message people but bc you will be shown to more people if you are active 4. If you can free “boost” your profile, do it Tuesday at 7. 5. Go through the “likes” section that premium unlocked and choose from there 6. Aim for guys who have possibilities of being handsome but do not know how to choose a picture of themself. It’s a risk, but no one is messaging them. Anyway, I’m shocked this worked but it did for 2 of us gals so I thought I’d pass it on.
2025-12-24 12:08:01
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Courtney Kaezyk :
Single in my 40’s…I’ve had a tough time finding friends. I adopted a dog and that’s helped.
2025-12-23 03:52:19
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Jennifer Schultz :
36 and looking for community. let's get together!
2025-12-23 03:54:47
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grandmashere :
I started a Reddit group in my neighborhood for single women over 30, and now have sooo many new cool single girlfriends 💕💕💕
2025-12-24 16:23:28
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Cate :
Me! 37 and single too. Would love to hang out!
2025-12-23 03:30:33
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a n n a 🍉 :
37. Don’t date men and got involved in my neighborhood!
2025-12-24 23:28:34
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nyan :
it's.. a confusing time and age. I'm on that boat but actually just coming into the city - I whiled away 4 years living in Colorado and feeling like I had "given it my all" to no avail and no hope. and it's a devastating loss to feel like you've given away your last year, your last few months of hope for like... nothing. I don't have solutions or like easy encouragement but from a random internet stranger I'll sit alongside you in the gutter if that's how it all feels. It's something I wish the happy friends in my life would have been able to do.
2025-12-24 08:54:34
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lejlie :
Let’s be friendss, I live in Greenwich Village. I’m 38 and don’t have A single friend and do date younger. I’m just a late bloomer.
2026-01-03 01:18:43
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CuriousPerson :
38 single in Manhattan. I gave up dating. All single friends left during covid as well
2025-12-23 03:47:36
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LivLikeLex :
Haven’t yet cracked the code 🫠
2025-12-23 15:51:04
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gangofnyc :
We need a system and in person place
2025-12-26 15:28:41
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Tom T :
NJ shore
2025-12-25 14:31:57
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Armando :
do you like tamales?
2025-12-23 13:52:25
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user878797979122029 :
Try volunteer work. Good place to meet people.
2025-12-23 07:21:34
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OqMds74281 :
Miami is bad too
2025-12-25 02:16:32
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Erin Eber | Frequency Healer ✨ :
41 and only moved back to nyc cause i was happy to be single. It’s a city of singles, and I hang with a lot of younger people 🤷🏼♀️
2025-12-24 01:04:48
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gladisphoebs :
I’m in Cali and have the same probs as all my friends are in relationships or married. I just hang with younger friends tbh. As long as you look good, you’ll mesh in well
2025-12-23 18:35:10
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Professor B :
First off welcome to the 40’s beforehand. But we’re still here. 43 here in queens.
2025-12-25 08:20:45
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VirginaWolfpack :
This is the age when you start dating married men
2025-12-23 13:09:08
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