Zara Beth
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ΡΘPS ✨🦈🚦🪐 :
I agree with this so much as someone with autism and tics. It’s like Christmas has such good vibes but I HATE all the flashing lights and having to socialise and mask/ suppress around everyone and having to react a certain way when opening presents to not seem ungrateful, etc
2025-12-23 16:17:52
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Fern :
I’ve already cried twice and it’s 8am..
2025-12-25 08:17:30
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coolarthan_u12 :
im so exhausted after everythjng is bleh
2025-12-24 00:41:00
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raine :
I'm autistic and refuse to spend Christmas with anyone but my daughter. I highly suspect she's autistic so before I wrap her presents she asks to see them. She struggles with surprises. I struggle with Christmas too.
2026-01-22 21:05:53
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grimshaw :
I spend Christmas Day alone, by choice. I've given up on the irritations and ordeals. No need to spoil the Day for others, or vice versa 🙂🙃🙂
2025-12-29 04:28:47
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🚦Finnigan🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈 :
Heavy on the preforming while opening gifts. I could get a gift that I would’ve sold my soul to get and when I open it I do a simple awkward laugh and a “thanks”. It’s so stressful and I literally have to practice all day on Christmas Eve. :(
2025-12-25 00:38:27
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💿freya💿 :
I have a few relatives that are fully aware I have autism tourettes and a few other conditions but if I stim or don't seam grateful enough or only have turkey and a Yorkshire pudding they get super mad like I can't deal with I I was wondering if you had anymore tips and also one to help not end up in a flare up from doing way to much
2025-12-23 23:44:34
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☆ Nandiii ☆ :
Omg I haven’t seen you in yearssss! how are youu
2025-12-23 16:08:25
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whatthehellie2336 :
Remember you’re not alone. Thank you for this advice 🥰👏✨
2025-12-23 16:51:36
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Malene🇵🇸 :
My little sisters eating noises make christmas almost unbearable for me. I have to wear headphones and earplugs to make it through even minutes at the table
2025-12-24 00:31:47
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Lily<3 (Columbias version) :
ive developed tics this year (not diagnosed properly yet unfortunately) and have to go to dinner with some aunts i havent seen, do you have any advice on how to deal with it?
2025-12-23 16:08:31
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☻ⓘⓣⓩⓤ☻ :
yea and sometimes i don’t know react to some presents!!
2025-12-23 19:49:02
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Rob :
We abandoned traditional Christmasses and started having autism friendly Christmases with our kids and things got a lot easier. No pressure, everyone eats when they want, they pick and choose what parts of Christmas dinner they have and we just heat it up,open presents at their own pace and do the activities they feel they want to do, and have breaks in their rooms whenever they want with no pressure to socialise. Both my teens are AuDHD and so are myself and my wife (we were not diagnosed til our children were).
2025-12-25 06:04:42
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jaden :
preach. i never used to understand why i hated holidays so much as a kid and now it totally makes sense.
2025-12-24 21:36:36
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Katie ⋆˚࿔ :
This is so comforting to know, thank you Zara. I get really anxious too like a lot of Autistic individuals and always say to my Mum about it and then she's like why though you've got nothing to be anxious. So watching your video has been very validating that it's ok to feel this way. 🎄
2025-12-24 01:29:08
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Tom.r.040 :
I spend Christmas at least with my own and I make myself happy, so thats a lot❤️
2025-12-24 13:56:10
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Sophie丰 :
Hi love! Can you make a video on why birthdays are hard?
2025-12-24 06:54:03
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Gamergirl :
can relate to that
2025-12-24 23:54:14
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Nikzel91 :
Absolutely!!!! It's okay to choose to spend Christmas the way that feels good to you🥰
2025-12-24 05:47:06
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Sonia‼️ :
I’d honestly rather just not celebrate Christmas, even tho I have people I enjoy being around. But that’s also not socially acceptable 😭🙏
2025-12-24 02:16:09
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Ali :
This is my second Christmas being diagnosed autistic in my late 20s... 100% trying to be comfortable this year 💖
2025-12-23 22:32:07
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Aimee :
I just wanna go back to school not gonna lie
2025-12-25 16:14:56
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Eden 🦖🦕 :
hi zara! I just wanted to say that I'm so proud of how far you've come! I've been following since 2019 and I love you so much!! ❤️
2025-12-23 16:07:47
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ℳ𝑒𝑒𝓀𝒶(o゜▽゜)o☆ :
Going to my fav auntie’s house this year🤭
2025-12-25 11:58:41
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freya 💿💓 :
guess who survived Christmas day without their loops (I left them at home)
2025-12-26 09:57:05
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Emmy the traveller :
heheh early
2025-12-23 16:04:33
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HTTYD🐉 :
So true thanks ❤️
2025-12-24 18:56:13
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Luna und Lilly :
So true one of the hardest things for me in my family is that we don’t really have traditions everything changes every year and even if they make plans they change them. Like right now I’m laying in bed waiting for everyone to wake up while they said they‘d get up an hour ago it’s already starting to be a difficult day for me
2025-12-24 06:50:52
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Will :
im autistic and i love Christmas like LOVE Christmas but god its fucking exhausting i love my family but i also have a big family this yr will be me, my mrs, our bestmate (lile family to us), my parents, and my 2 younger sisters one of which is a loud 13yr old i love her but god shes loud. so yh amazing and exhausting together
2025-12-24 00:02:28
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SterkWater :
So true. Thanks needed this today
2025-12-24 12:06:30
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SPAACE :
im sat in my granny's room trying not to cry. I'm so overwhelmed
2025-12-25 15:43:51
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bruce :
I agree
2026-02-01 00:54:32
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Paoalys :
🥰
2026-01-09 08:44:32
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Paoalys :
😂
2026-01-09 08:44:30
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askmemuch :
So gently and beautifully said
2025-12-27 15:04:09
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meikekal :
Its the day after and all i can do is lay in my bed
2025-12-27 15:01:22
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Madds 🪐 :
I needed to hear this
2025-12-26 23:31:00
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Kal X :
Just me and my children today, no visiting family, no friends over just the 3 of us and it has been the best Christmas we’ve had so far (spent in our pjs) No need to mask, no transitioning , no rushing , no over stimulating karaoke , and no drama . We opened presents, took the day slowly , watched movies , great food and most importantly spent time together!
2025-12-25 20:25:51
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arihicks22 :
Hi so I’m a newer person in the world of autism (I was raised heavily sheltered and am only just starting to explore my diagnosis). Has anyone else ever felt extremely frustrated with their gifts. People spent money and time on me which I greatly appreciate but it also wasn’t stuff I asked for (I put full name/brand/store on my list) as I new that I can be kinda picky. I got a few things on my list and a bunch I’d never asked for/mentioned. I feel like a circus elephant trying to perform with my face and body language and my mom saw through it and rolled her eyes and was like “oh it’s ok.” Idk am I wrong for wanting to return stuff, I probably won’t use some of it (it was similar but not exact to my list).
2025-12-25 18:21:12
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♯ εммɑ 𝄞 :
True, especially if your birthday is close to Christmas. I'm not even done processing my birthday, and now it's Christmas 😅
2025-12-25 14:19:11
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KuraiYomi<3🇵🇸🇳🇱🇪🇺 :
exactly!! although we celebrate yule 😁
2025-12-23 23:14:34
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Jessie atkinson :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-12-24 22:19:59
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belladonna.35 :
Runaway to my moms bed
2025-12-24 22:00:56
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🕷️ 🎭 😑 :
your gorgeous
2025-12-24 08:19:12
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user604146393170 :
I feel like the expectations for Christmas to be perfect are sky high and that puts so much pressure on beforehand. The anticipation puts so much pressure on yourself that one can’t relax and actually enjoy the festivities. In German we say „gespannt wie ein Flitzebogen“ (transl. Bound tight like a shooting bow) but in a very unpleasant way
2025-12-24 08:37:45
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TessCoopers :
and as an eldest daughter u are the only one helping the mom with allll the preparations 😥😥
2025-12-24 10:35:51
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