@nikaandemeka: My husband and I made this rule (he stays in the guest room) esp when we have a full house hosting holiday parties. This auntie is taking no chances!! #auntie #sleepovers #kidsafety
I was a COSCA victim - today is the first time I am realizing this. Thank you for sharing.
2026-01-18 23:26:05
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xCettx :
My dad was a single dad and he'd never let me have sleepovers. I never understood until he said "its not a good look for a single dad to have slumber parties with a bunch of little girls over"
Totally understood.
2026-02-05 10:43:52
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Becoming_Brendah :
yesssss, better be safe than sorry, yall have heard of COSCA right?
2025-12-25 19:19:51
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nell🪷 :
everyone asking "from who" is extremely privileged to not question EVERYONE around you. it can literally be, ANYONE.
2025-12-24 22:50:32
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His Favorite Snack :
and if u have to do this get a divorce
2025-12-25 00:34:36
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Jasmine_lillian_ :
“Keep them safe from who” she’s a mother not taking any risk in finding out who
2025-12-24 23:00:55
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Keeks So Fun :
🙏🏾a woman before a wife!!
2025-12-25 11:15:14
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jazzy.kattt :
Not only does this benefit the girls by keeping them safe, it prevents him from accusations BUT it also encourages the girls to stick with sleeping in and around safe women in other scenarios/ other people’s homes as well. It sets the norm. I love this.
2025-12-25 08:54:34
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Rhonda Michele Stewa :
Yall asking from who!?? From anyone including eachother shoot!
2025-12-24 23:58:35
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Gabrielle Schmidt :
That you trust the man around you or not, better be carefull that sorry! You’re doing a great job girl❤️
2025-12-24 21:29:50
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doris(no) :
my dad is a firefighter and when I had sleepovers with my friends he would go to the station and sleep there ☹️❤️
2026-02-07 21:01:56
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Baby Garbanzo Beans :
Even if you trust that man this sets a good precedent for the girls to know that they are safe and any other behavior really shouldn’t be toerated
2025-12-24 22:56:45
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A Singular Feral Lavender :
Us trusting the men around us doesnt change the fact that our mothers or our friends mothers trusted the men we were left with too.
2025-12-25 10:10:02
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Alix-📚🤌 :
Never assume bad won’t happen. I think this is so smart!
2025-12-25 03:40:58
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snnobii :
“from who” shes not risking having to know
2026-02-05 02:17:43
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zenitsu agatsuma :
my dad made the same rule with my mom when I was 6 and I'm their only daughter so I get why they're like this
2026-02-04 02:20:33
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🇸🇩 :
this feels so warm
2026-02-03 15:03:05
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averageant :
yall not understanding is sending me
she is keeping them safe from everyone
2026-01-21 21:21:19
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Colls :
Everyone saying safe from who doesn't realize literally anything can happen and from the most UNEXPECTED people...
2025-12-24 22:04:58
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Kubby :
Most cases literally happen within the family
2025-12-24 22:09:35
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Me! :
I have a daughter. If she has a friend over and it is only her dad here (whom we ALL trust) I still make sure their parents are okay with that.
2026-01-24 19:12:12
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coleeford :
My siblings think my dad is crazy for checking in on or asking me to check in on the nieces and nephews at family parties. I know he isn’t crazy.
2026-02-04 21:51:05
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🖤STAY🖤 :
me thinking that this is fun that the mom wants to join in on the fun but these comments
2026-02-02 07:39:54
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️•رؤ𓂀ـىٰ || 𝓡𝓸𝔸• :
me not realising what is COCSA until searching it and finding out that happened to me and not in a sleepover.
2026-02-03 15:05:02
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