@simplyysri: yes this was a real fight yesterday and no my mom did not take my side

Resol Ettil 🍉 :

No bc what is a man gonna add to my life???

. :

Eldest daughter core

wafflew :

weaponized incompetence. 🙏

Gem :

Same girl same. I’m 45 and share a house with my best friend. We call ourselves the golden girls. 😆

rgk37 :

zoyah :

SOOOOOO TRUE...as a brown girly speaking I always think to myself "what is a man gonna add to my life that I don't already have?"....maybe more stress ig...which I don't want...I'm not trynna die young😂

rhea :

YES and why does my dad get to reap benefits of my sister and I being good daughters, when we don’t get to reap benefits of him being a good man?

mayubblessed99 :

As an Arab woman, I’m tired

Ithaca is Waiting :

Heavy on the "Deep rooted sense of anger"

Sarah Fouad :

the anger never leaves 😔

🌜🌛 :

😭then they have the audacity to label you as an angry, negative and horribly moody person

Theo :

I told my aunt, "imagine me living with a man for the rest of my life? hellllll nawwwww" and she was ljke "ur dad?" and I said "EXACTLY. THATS ENOUGH FOR 2 LIFE TIMES" (my dad is.... something to say the least.)

Sadia 🪼 :

I sadly relate to this too much. Incompetence is unattractive and id much rather be alone than have to rely on a man

Kukusha :

I would rather be free than loved.. marriage is not worth it's risk to me so is motherhood so yeah.. it's just me in this life😏

jane :

"I was raised around male incompetency and so I cannot turn a blind eye to it" because wdym I have to adjust myself to everything just because sons are enabled?? The expectations for daughters are huge 😫

gbemiii :

atp i’m fine on my own

dria🌸 :

anger never leaves.

👵🏻 :

u get it

Fama🌻 :

This is so relatable because same😭😭😭

Ash :

Girl, like I tell my daughters, marriage and children is not your reason for existing. Live your life, enjoy yourself, have that career, travel. Give me grandpuppies, do whatever gives your joy. As long as you're not hurting anyone, breaking any laws, are a decent human being... I'm proud of you. I'm proud of you too - An Indian Ma

Sleep :

With autism the sense of justice is so strong that my suppressed emotions have caused autoimmune disorders

saara :

and they dont even tryyyyyyyy ommgggg for example, wrapping the Christmas present; it's not impossible or extremely difficult, they simply want you to do it for them. as the oldest daughter i feel that anger with u 🤍

Abi9186 :

Your sibling reminds me of my coddled little brother. He never lifted a finger to help around the house BUT it was OK for him to create messes every where! I totally understand your anger 😭

me_myself_and_i717 :

I haven’t spent down time with my parents in almost a year and it INFURIATES me how my dad treats my mom, and how he doesn’t even think about her “invisible” labor. I think he’s taken aback by how snappy I’ve been these past few days because *it never crosses his mind* 😡