@fernsgotfaith: Maybe they are maybe they aren’t but my point is we go through great lengths to try and justify why people do the things they do and it’s exhausting. To research peoples character dynamic and temperaments and do anything to try and understand them when they did everything to not understand you? Doesn’t add up #ChristianTikTok #FaithBasedHealing #ChristianMentalHealth #NervousSystemHealing #Avoidant
I hold both to be true or could be true. I look at it that he made the decision to leave and that was his choice. The reason honestly doesn’t matter because it was not in my control. I never want someone to stay with me if the don’t out of guilt. He is my mirror and I would have never known I was without him. He is the reason I can grow and be better.
2026-01-09 20:04:52
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Flowerchildnay :
I’ve accepted this. It’s hard because it does hurt your ego. But it’s better than sitting around feeling bad for someone who did you wrong.
2025-12-26 23:54:46
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N❤️I❤️K❤️K❤️I :
Hard pill to swallow but true.. hurts
2026-01-24 23:18:09
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🕊️ :
Avoidance stems from childhood caregivers typically. Why would one of GOD’s biologically social creatures choose loneliness rather than closeness? Let them go or ask GOD to give you compassion and insight in how you view them.
2025-12-25 17:10:20
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Spiritual_Squirrel :
I think a lot of people can handle someone not choosing closeness; the struggle is when they say they choose closeness but their actions do not. We have been deceived.
2025-12-26 16:35:31
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Lotus :
Nah they just don’t actually like you like that but wish they did
2025-12-25 17:59:15
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Jessica Banks :
my ex was also avoidant. but you are right. he didnt chose closeness with me. I guinuenly hope he finds it with someone he adores someday. hes a good man.
2025-12-27 02:49:12
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🦋Butterfly🦋 :
My ex is an avoidant. I do feel bad for him.
2025-12-26 02:36:33
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sobermike87 :
Real talk 💯
2026-01-25 04:46:30
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𝙻𝚘𝚟𝚎, 𝙷𝚊𝚕𝚎𝚢. :
Thank you 🤎
2026-01-03 19:27:56
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Pixieamazon :
I needed to hear this thank you
2025-12-26 03:53:08
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universal glitch clips :
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2026-01-02 08:09:43
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Sa Yong :
👏👏👏👏
2025-12-25 17:25:27
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Kyle :
True
2025-12-26 21:31:37
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