@caffeinevschaos_fostrmom: In fostercare, sometimes reunification fails. We start over, and the kids are left with more confusion, guilt, big emotions and behaviors, grief, and fear. #fostercare #traumainformed #christmas

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shiapotato
Shiana Henry :
I will never believe in reunification
2025-12-27 17:50:15
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danvers5
emmy :
Which is why reunification should be a case by case basis not a general thing.
2025-12-27 02:35:59
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samilove6321
Jane Doe :
Hold onto those pictures of her. it'll make her feel loved knowing someone felt enough love to document her first🥹❤️
2025-12-26 20:40:12
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3mm4_2019
emma :
Im confused, is it their kid or are they the foster parents?
2025-12-27 23:15:32
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hannahjaelle
hannahjaelle :
Once you lose your children more than once, that should be it. Being back and forth from foster care to reunification hurts children sm. The damage can’t be reversed
2025-12-27 19:31:01
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sara_bee_8180
Sara_Bee_8180 :
I'm all for reunification but at what point do bio parents lose their shot. Some states give WAY too many chances and it is so not fair to these children when they have foster parents willing and waiting to adopt.
2025-12-27 13:50:26
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kaipaigedavis
Princess Kai :
People hate on reunification but my kids were taken because my ex husband tried to murder them while I was at work.. I immediately took action and he went to prison and I made my house safe again for my children to come back because of reunification.
2025-12-28 05:05:08
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rownmarqet
rownmarqet :
My ex was adopted after a failed reunification. It leaves quiet scars
2025-12-27 03:27:19
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fosteringfreedom88
fosteringfreedom88 :
Going through the same thing right now, I had two little ones as toddlers for Christmas 2023 and now I have them again for Christmas in 2025.
2025-12-26 04:18:18
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alexisnicholecrady
Lexapro :
Reunification being the goal in EVERY case is so dangerous. My youngest brother was his bio mom’s 9th child to have removed from her, and they still let him go back to her. He came back with so much trauma that he wasn’t able to communicate. We were eventually able to adopt him, as we had already adopted 3 of his siblings, but the trauma that woman gave to her children will be lifelong.
2025-12-27 05:05:19
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a.lexistentialcrisis
alexis 🍒🍸 :
reunification shouldn’t be the standard. case by case basis.
2025-12-28 01:04:39
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atelier.ndd
ATELIER NDD :
Statistically reunions fails more than it succeeds. It is horrific that the parents’ rights are prioritized over what is best for the child.
2025-12-27 04:21:14
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aidentinsleyy
aidentinsleyy :
I was reunited with my mom, people do change. Not everyone in the foster system got abused. Reunions do happen but they shouldn’t always
2025-12-27 22:30:49
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heythereitsme197194
Karmaisacat3482719 :
Reunification is great if the parents are worthy of having a child. Bio parents are given too many chances, causes so much instability for the child
2025-12-28 02:15:21
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seekerofbooksandcoffee_
Kristina 💗 :
Thank you for taking her back in! I hope it’s for the last time this time!
2025-12-26 15:11:10
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thesweetcynth
thesweetcynth :
I was horrified when my case worker told my sisters and me that reunification was the goal. We were put in foster care because our grandpa SAed all of us and our grandma was extremely physically abusive. Thankfully we never went back.
2025-12-29 12:19:17
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wrenchbender237
Wrench🔧 :
they give kids back to awful parents instead of people that love them. I've seen it first hand. Pray for the babies!
2026-01-21 05:24:22
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sharing.sunshine
sharing.sunshine :
🥺🥹 I’m happy you are there for her but sad things didn’t work out with her family
2025-12-26 04:01:27
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irocubabe
Cryz :
unfortunately the statistics are reunification are very very bad in terms of them actually being successful
2025-12-27 17:36:18
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nmp021
nmp :
as a foster kid. I only think reunification should happen if an addicted parent gets clean or if it was a case of parent needing resources. actual abuse should never be reunified
2025-12-28 23:17:24
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favoritearab22
Sadn :
I’m so confused. Can someone explain what these comments are about?
2025-12-28 04:22:02
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kkaitlynnkayy
kkaitlynnkayy :
Just want to jump in here - one, thank yall for not letting the system burn you. two, thank the case manager / whoever it was that reached out to put them back with someone they may remember. 10 years in as a case manager, and it is so rare. 🩵🩵🩵
2025-12-27 03:24:16
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castrationprobation
𝓰𝓻𝓪𝓬𝓲𝓮 🍒 :
Hold onto those pictures, having a complete childhood history will be so nice to look back on for her
2025-12-27 23:30:23
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bitch..tff
Balls dipped in spaghetti :
Reunification is the reason I had to age out of foster care rather then find a healthy home
2025-12-28 00:53:13
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manti_manti
Manti :
My dude spent his 5th and 6th with us and then his 16th and 17th, next year his 18th and every year after that too! ♥️
2025-12-27 18:38:50
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